Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Escape into the woods & just like me

Some days it's best just to surrender, drop everything and escape into the woods. 005 006 014 023 About 1/4 of the way into the hike K decided she was done and proceeded to sit down in protest. 042 038 She quickly changed her mind though, once she spotted endless amounts of lupines. 028 C's legs are now tired. Time for a switcheroo! Kevin and C Good thing we brought the extra Ergo. 047 K found a new friend. I can not remember what she named him, for the life of me, but I do know it was something ridiculously cute. She fell in love with him and needed to carry him on the rest of the hike. Escape into the woods 057 escape into the woods 060 067 As I was trying to sneak a picture, K turned around with the expression on her face you see above. I knew it was time to put the camera away; she really needed me. She told me that she thought she may have dropped her caterpillar. She started turning around in circles looking for him. When I came closer I saw what happened. She did, indeed, drop her caterpillar and accidentally stepped on him in the process of looking for him. I had to break the news to her and she cried so completely. I tried to comfort her but it was obvious her little heart was broken. We did a quick burial and prayer for him and that seemed to help a little. She is probably my most affectionate child so I made sure to hold her hand and give her lots of love the rest of the hike.

She told me later that she felt responsible for his death and that he was counting on her. My heart broke when she told me that. She put so much responsibility onto her own shoulders because to her, all life is precious, beautiful, and needs to be nurtured. I feel the same way and tend to get just as emotional over the thought of any living being in pain.
She is just like me in so many ways.

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Awww what a sweetheart she is. Where are her cute sandals from?
1 reply · active 628 weeks ago
They are saltwater sandals. I found them super cheap online last year and couldn't resist.
ah poor sweet girl. it's hard sometimes to feel so deeply.
Poor little thing. When she gets older, she'll appreciate that each butterfly lays hundreds of eggs, to make sure there are new butterflies despite hungry birds, possums, and extremely affectionate little girls. But for right now, it's just tough. Nature has its own way.
Oh sweet little soul she is! It's a wonderful thing when a child has such a heart for animals. Sad that she was so upset, but beautiful at the same time too, you know?
hopefully you don't hate me for this, because it's coming from the best of places. (and having an older child, we've been through scenes like the one you described). Our philosophy, when encountering nature, is to observe in place, and then return them to where they were found. That way, the life is truly respected. The food plants (which, in cases of a species we're not familiar with, especially) are close by... and they were probably on their way, somewhere! To water, to lay eggs, to find a place to pupate.... I find that the 6 year old understands that if we remove/move something from the area we found it, even with good intentions, love and interest, sometimes, it may die because it won't have what it needs to live. We had a devastating experience with a pet tomato hornworm caterpillar, once. It errupted with parasitic wasp larvae... My 16 year old was 8, and still tells the story!
K reminds me soooo much of my oldest daughter, who's only 2.5 years old but is so sensitive that if I seem at all worried she always says, "Don't worry, Mommy!" Like you, I am the same way and it makes it much easier to understand where she is coming from!
Love the saltwater sandals and the beautiful forest photos! The story about K and the caterpillar is so sad. I do understand the feeling (I still feel terrible for accidentally running over a squirrel three years ago), but she did have the best intentions. I hope she is feeling better and has realized it really wasn't her fault.
My seven year old Zoey is just like K. She rescued a caterpillar the other day from the side view mirror of my car and cared for it while we went to the store, then lost it in the car on the way home and was DEVASTATED! We also recently lost our hermit crab (meaning she passed away) and she took it the hardest. I love that compassion for life! Their hearts are so full of love!
Love the pictures..amazing place to be in!
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Chase Your Dreams · 628 weeks ago

So Sweet!

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