Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Journey

birthday bannr blocking her door our traditional birthday reading checking everything out birthday girl with the sleepy baby
above her desk/vanity
looking at sister's gifts her desk/vanity
the chair that doesn't fit
matching the quilt her special spider plant (from PWS) in it's new knit hanger clock from nana and grandpa Alarm clock from Nana and Grandpa (this one) gifts from nana and grandpa Books from Nana and Grandpa Little L gave her a pumpkin K baby still celebrates hair stylin'
11!!

 My clever, feisty, compassionate K turned eleven earlier this week. Eleven! Can you believe it? I can't. My journey as a mama started with her and I can't believe it has been this long. It feels as if I just blinked and here we are, eleven years later. But oh what a ride it has been. I look forward to all the years to come! Please continue to be patient with me, my dear K. I am learning right along side you.

We celebrated K by giving her her own space for the little time we have left here (more on that later). The playroom has been moved out to the living room and she now has a room of her own. She has a hard time concentrating on schoolwork with the rest of her siblings around so we thought we would give her a desk to work at in her room. I found the one you see pictured at a consignment shop and just fixed it up a bit with Kevin's help. I thought it was perfect at the time because it was vintage and so compact. Well, unfortunately that means that I can't find a chair to fit it. I found the one you see pictured above at another consignment shop and painted it the same blue as my bookcase to get us by for now. She is pleased with it and that is what matters...right?

She was asking for her own essential oil diffuser so we got her a horse one (of course!). Kevin hung a little shelf I painted on the wall above it to hold her oils. She has been having so much fun choosing her oils each day. Next to her oil shelf hangs a mirror so she can sit at her desk and brush her hair or put in her earrings. Although as you can see in the photo of her and C - she has turned this space into her own little vanity/beauty salon. My little girl is growing up!

In her window hangs a very special spider plant that is from her beloved teacher back at Portland Waldorf School. I knit a hanger for it in her favorite colors to keep it safe from our plant loving cats.

Nana and Grandpa gifted her with an alarm clock for her room as well as four books (from your recommendations!) - Heidi, The Secret Garden, The Penderwicks and Where the Mountain Meets the Moon.   Little L gave her a pumpkin and C gave her one of her special hedgehogs. I also knit her a birthday sweater as I do every year. She is wearing it in the photos but I will share more about that in another post.

But perhaps her most favorite gift of all was her very own base ID. Now from time to time she can go places on base without us. She tested it out right away by biking to the library and getting her own library card and then going to the commissary (base grocery store) to pick up some fruit for her siblings. We had her take my phone with her so she could call us at each stop and check in (because this mama's heart needed that!). She is truly loving this new found independence. I have a feeling it was just what she needed most. Just don't grow up too fast, my little one, okay?



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Ah they do grow up quickly don't they and as you say, we grow up with them and are learning alongside our eldest children in particular...My eldest is feisty too. I think that must be a necessity to push and challenge us to grow. Good for you for letting her out a bit more on her own and giving her the space she needs to be alone in her own room, which is something very precious to her no doubt - you are listening and prioritising her needs: What a special present to mark her eleventh birthday. And what lovely thoughtfully chosen gifts, reflecting her interests and her age. I remember looking at myself a lot in the mirror at that age, wondering what would become of me, dreaming....My eldest daughter is totally in love with that blue too and loves horses. I love the knitted plant holder - a lovely idea and the different samples of horse fabric on her wall - a really nice touch ( and giving me an idea for my eldest girls birthday in October!) and how lovely to have the privilege of mixing her own essential oils. She looks delighted with it all! At eleven they are really growing in independence and they need more freedom ( with boundaries). It really looks like you are acknowledging this and I am sure your daughter appreciates you even more for it. On another note, what style quilt is that? I want to make a quilt for both my daughters by Christmas. It looks lovely and not too complicated, which would suit me well :-) warmest wishes, Anna
1 reply · active 444 weeks ago
Thank you for such a thoughtful comment :) I don't remember the name of the quilt style but if i remember right it had something to do with crosses?? i can't quiltto save my life so i had someone else make that for K :D
My 11 year old has grown up by leaps and bounds over the last 6 months. She's been waking herself up by alarm clock and fixing her own breakfas(usually reheating stuff I've prepared the night before) and getting herself ready for school alone. I'm always there supervising but she does it all on her own, even making her own lunch. She just got a phone 2 weeks ago and she's been super responsible with it. I'm pleasantly surprised and slightly dismayed to see her so grown up and ladylike. :)
1 reply · active 444 weeks ago
Wow! it seems to come out of nowhere, doesn't it?
How wonderful this all is. A room of her own and new freedoms - brave mama! I have been wondering when my elder will need a room of her own and had been meaning to ask your opinion. How long til your big move?
1 reply · active 444 weeks ago
I think it depends on the children, really. K needed this for sure but one of my closest friends still has her 4 children in the same room and her oldest (a girl) is 12.
Our move *should* be happening this spring!
The days are long but the years are short. God grant you many years dear child. Where the Mountain Meets the Moon had me crying for like two days solid! Just a heads up!
1 reply · active 444 weeks ago
Oh thank you Sonia! and thank you for the heads up on the book. She just started it tonight so I am going to be prepared.
Happy Birthday to K! She is just a little younger than my second, Thomas. I am already seeing so many changes! These are exciting times, for sure.

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