Friday, March 8, 2013

What good came from this?

020 005 moderate case 089 Midnight on the window 033 014 hello Beowulf! 014 008 025 The gift of today!

This week was a tough one, that's for sure. Definitely one for the record books. As expected Little L's chicken pox arrived on Saturday, exactly two weeks from when K's first showed up. Then the next day C had them. I have heard that each case is very different, but oh my! We went from one end of the spectrum to the other. K had such a mild case it was really a breeze to get through. Little L had more spots than K did and a slight fever but was feeling okay with lots of cuddles. I would say his case was mild to moderate. C, on the other hand, had a much more severe case. She was literally covered from head to toe with the spots (the pictures above were from day one- it got worse from there), even getting some on one of her eyes, and she ran a fever for three to four days. My sensitive girl was pretty miserable. We got through it by grace alone.

I tried to cheer up my little ones, remind them of what is truly important during these difficult times and put things into perspective for us all (since I was losing sight, myself). Instead of focusing on the bad in the moment, we would make ourselves focus on the good. What good came of having the chicken pox? What blessings in disguise were revealed?

Here is a short list of some of the things we came up with:

Our school community went above and beyond with helping us. Thanks to them K didn't miss a day of school (that would be torture for her, she loves it so much!), and because of their help she had extra time with her friends. Our family is feeling pretty loved.

Lifelong immunity.

Creature comforts. I tend to forget just how much better one can feel with a warm fuzzy companion by their side. Midnight Macho Nacho Man brought lots of comfort to C this week. K paid homage to him by drawing his image on their bedroom window (with window crayons, of course!).

Lots of snuggles and down time cozy in bed. This meant a lot of reading and discovering a new favorite, The Tales of Tiptoes Lightly (I can't recommend it enough. Even Little L seemed interested). An added bonus for me was that I knit while we read and now have C's Easter sweater more than halfway done.

Secret sewing! The girls bunny kits arrived Tuesday in the mail and I got to work on them that night.  In order to keep them secret I had to take the above photos while K was at school and C was taking a nap. The only place I could think to take them without drawing attention to myself was outside, in the rain, on our woodpile. As you can see, I caught Beowulf's eye. I actually have the first bunny a bit farther along now, that picture was from yesterday. Bunnies on the wood pile just may become a mini photo series until they are revealed Easter morning.

The love of sisters. K's nurturing side really shined as she brought C home flowers she picked at school each day and spent most of her moments caring for her siblings alongside me.

Hours spent playing a new board game we found on consignment at our school store. I think this was K's favorite thing of the week. The game is called The Birds of Summer and it's by Family Pastimes Co-operative games. Most of the few games we own come from them. I love how their games are not a competition but that everyone has to work together to win. Since we are a family of bird lovers this game was just perfect. I enjoy the fact that it teaches us new bird facts and behaviors and encourages us to research and learn more, while K really enjoys that it involves a tiny bit of math that she can do.

The gift of today! Stepping outside in the sunlight for the first time in days felt incredible.

Finding the gifts really does help us make it through those rough times. Now if only we could see them all the time! What gifts are hiding in plain sight for you?!

p.s - Just a friendly reminder - let's not get into vaccination debates, please! I appreciate your kindness with the last post on this topic!
With LOVE,
Nicole


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awww.....poor babies! I had measles first and then the chicken pox when I was a wee sprog. I was out of school for 3 weeks! I hope they are feeling better soon!
I missed the first round of bunnies at Posy's shop. *boo!* But I'll be making a purchase when the kits are available again - so cute!
When I had the chicken pox, my mama ran a family daycare (actually we still do lol) and since everyone had been exposed, we have a picture of myself and two other little girls in an oatmeal bath!

Just yesterday I posted about my beautiful mess (though not nearly as hard as yours!) http://likemamalikedaughter.blogspot.com/2013/03/...

Prayers for complete healing and cozy memories!
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
Aww. What a memory! And your post was something I just needed to read.
I remember doubting myself and worrying when my kiddos had them. One had them so bad, I felt horrible. But then like you I looked at what we had gained. Glad ou reminded everyone that this practice is much more beneficial for all.
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
Heather I think we had the same experience!
Hope everyone is on the mend soon! I remember when I had them at 8. It wasn't fun at all, but I'm glad to have gotten it over with.
Gosh, you are such an amazing woman. You inspire me to be a better mother - more calm, patient, in the moment, positive. Sending you the biggest of hugs - you've made it through a really rough week!
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
Oh goodness, I don't deserve that but thank you!!!
We are on the up and up now yipee!!!!
Goodness your little girl did get a bad dose but it is over & done with really quickly. I doubt she will get a second dose which can happen when they have milk doses. I have 2 girls & my eldest got a really mild dose at 3 yrs. As I thought would happen, she got a second dose when she was 7 but again it was a really mild. My second daughter got a really mild dose 2 weeks later so I am not sure whether either of my girls have had it enough for immunity. Anyway, hope all your little ones feel better soon.
How did your school help? A chicken pox party? How could she not miss a day of school? Young parents around here have a hard time finding anyone with chicken pox to expose their kids to. It's an ongoing discussion.
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
The parents of K's classmates helped us by bringing K to and from class (since I couldn't risk exposing everyoen to C and Little L). It wassuch a blessing!

I hadn't come across the chicken pox, either, until last year. I was beginning to wonder if we would ever get them!
Oh my, I have a very similar photo of myself when I was around 6 or so. I think I had them the worst out of my siblings. Glad you all got through the week. And I LOVE the picture your oldest drew on the window!
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
I don't have any pictures of myself with them but I had to snap one of C and Little L. K didn't have any that stood out enough to show up for a picture.

I adore that picture K drew of Midnight, too. I don't think I will be able to take it down!
oh, i am sorry that C has gotten such a bad case of the chicken pox! i hope that the worst of it is past by now and that all of your little ones are starting to feel better. my mom has always said that each case of the chicken pox is worse as it goes through a family--it don't know why that's the case, but it seems to be true! i'm glad that you've been able to find the gifts in all of this. i have started a gratitude journal lately, and i've found that it really helps shift my focus from the bad to the good. those bunnies are going to be darling!
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
It appears that your Mom is right!
You know, I have been meaning to starta gratitude journal. Thank you for the push I needed!
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jess beebe · 632 weeks ago

Teary and joyful-so inspiring! Love to your sweet family and special thank yous for Miss Maggie Rabbit-I am making it for Elsa.xxoo
1 reply · active 632 weeks ago
E-mail coming your way Miss Jess!! We miss you <3
Have a healing weekend! And yes, the sunshine must feel great! We are currently under lots of snow again in CT and I am ready for grass, blue skies and such! Also, thanks for the game idea - love that companies games.
Beautiful!!! Healing energies!! Have a wonderful weekend.
Congrats on lifelong immunity and a real rite of passage for mothers as well as little ones!
Oh poor sweet babies. I had chicken pox when I was 12, it's the worst. Sending healing vibes and good for you for staying positive!
Poor C - that's tough but hopefully she can look back at pictures when she's older and you can laugh about together. My eldest had a severe case too and experienced spots on her eyes and even in her ears. My youngest though you could hardly notice the few spots she had and she pretty much carried on as normal. Sending get well wishes x
Dear Nicole,
I'm so sorry your little ones have been ill! I hope they are on the mend soon. I remember when Jen was 5 she had chicken pox and she was very ill with it. For the next few weeks Erin and Cady were ill with it too, then it passed and it was over.
Stay strong and I'm sending healing thoughts.
Love and light
Linda
xo xo
Dear Nicole,

I hope they feel better now and the itchies have gone away! When my K got the chicken pox I did a little video of her. I watched it the other day while trying to clean my computer of big files. She was so cute. She talks about the first mark that appeared by her eye. She scratched that one a lot and it left a little scar. She says it's her eye beauty mark now.
1 reply · active 369 weeks ago
Cristina it is so good to hear from you!! I love how your sweet K saw her scar as a beauty mark. xoxo

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