Wednesday, January 16, 2013

You took care of me...now I'll take care of you

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It snowed all day long on Monday, but the flakes were so very tiny that they didn't accumulate to much. That didn't matter to my girls, in their eyes snow is snow and they want to savor every last second of it (even though K felt under the weather). They spent most of the day back and forth between playing in the snow and warming back up by the fire. Little L wanted to come out and explore this white stuff falling from the sky, too, so I bundled him up and out we went. He experienced his first taste of snow (thankfully the dogs stayed inside by the warm fire all morning so we didn't have to worry about yellow snow) and saw the beauty of our forest all decked out in King Winter's mini crystals.

K was feeling much better by the end of the day and there was much rejoicing but then this Mama started to wheeze and C started to sneeze and

the

family

feels

sick

K murmurs, "Don't worry," and tucks us in bed. She bundles us up and kisses our heads.
She tells us, "You'll soon feel like new. You took care of me... now I'll take care of you."

Okay, that last part didn't exactly happen. I just have our favorite "sick book" memorized now. We have a couple of books set aside that only come out when someone is sick. That somehow makes being under the weather slightly less miserable. The one quoted above is from Bear Feels Sick.

But both C and I are feeling quite ill. I am doing my best to care for her as well as keep the healthy members of my family happy but I won't lie - it's a struggle when I barely have the strength to eat or make it up the stairs. As a mother I can't call in sick to my job or take it easy. I've been longing for my own Mama to come and take care of me. Am I just being a wimp? This led me to wonder  - who takes care of the Mamas when they are sick? I know Kevin would gladly take care of me, if he could, but his job has him gone more often than he is home and taking time off just isn't an option.
What do you do when you're sick? Do you just tough it out? Who helps you to feel better?

p.s - Little L's boots are an older version of these (they used to be C's!) and his snowsuit and mittens are boiled wool from Disana.
p.p.s - Come back tomorrow for another giveaway.

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Oh dear! Well, now when this momma is sick her babies take care of her because they are old enough but when they were little, this momma would lie down in the trenches (piles of laundry and dirty towels usually) and just try to feel better and lay down where she could watch her children so they wouldn't burn the house down : )
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
I usually put some bones in the crock pot for broth, lie down and feel sorry for myself :) I found this through pinterest, and while I haven't had to use it yet, there are some good ideas. http://www.babycenter.com/0_40-ways-to-entertain-...
Hope you feel better soon!
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
dear Nicole, ask for help from neighbors and friends. If you don't ask they don't know that you could use their help. I just survived 18 days of everyone in my family having a very serious and debilatating flu. I needed help and it was hard to ask for help but I had no choice because I had the flu too. Other Mama's want to help, because they know that one day they will need it and you can return the love. I am thankful for neighbors and friends who brought homemade soup, tissues, ginger ale.... I can't wait to help another Mama. Too bad distance is so far between us.

Take good care and call someone to help you. Nicole
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
When I'm sick I more or less have to tough it out. B helps when he's home from work, but I feel bad since he's already done a full day's work. So generally I carry on - at a slower pace.

Sending "get well" thoughts your way!
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Generally, we just muddle through when I am sick. There is a lot of napping, hunkering down, ginger ale, and movies.,but basically I try my best to carry on. There ave been times when daddy had to take a sick day to take care of us, though usually this means I have some kind of serious stomach thing going on and was tied to the bathroom. We only call on him in emergencies. It's tough, but take care of yourself, and look forward to feeling better.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
It is so hard when the mama falls sick. The last time I was sick, my older children did baking soda and vinegar experiments in the kitchen. I just laid on the couch nearby and let them unsupervised. They loved it, but daddy was not too excited when he came home. He understood and rolled with it though. Hoping you have friends nearby that can help. It is not weakness or a shortcoming to ask for assistance.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Ask for help. We all need it at some time and most people are just waiting to help but don't want to tread on toes. It was the best feeling when I was sick a few weeks ago and a dear friend just dropped by with soup and homemade bread for our dinner! My dad always told me that it is a blessing to help others, but that we also need to allow others the blessing by letting them help us at times. Good luck and I hope you all feel better soon.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Oh I so understand how you feel Mama! We just had an experience with the stomache bug, on Christmas eve no less! It was the first time in my single parenting life of three children that I felt like I just cannot do this alone. I was throwing up at the exact same time my two year old was, I was in the bathroom, and I could hear her crying and throwing up all over herself in the livingroom, but I could not get up to go to her for a few minutes. I felt so helpless and guility, knowing she was scared and miserable. What a horrible horrible situation. Luckily the illness passed quickly and we are all well.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Nicole, I must say I didn't even wanted to read this post, because this is a subject that worries me a lot and I feel I have no answers. I feel very sad when sick and have fantasies about what a great thing is to have a husband I lack, which is not quite real, since husbands are not always so cool or they are just busy. I just keep going ignoring whatever it is or feeling very guilty if I really need to lay down and do. I never had much support from family members, but I do from my network of friends, the thing is that they are all in Mexico, and I'm here in Costa Rica, so this add to my constant sadness. We need someone to take care of us, because we give more than we have, as the Coatlicue, an Aztec goddess, splitting our selves to give to others; it's even harder if all the weight of family income falls in you shoulders. Sorry if my answer is depressive, but I hope you soon feel better and try to take it easy as much as you can, chores will be waiting patiently, but rest as much as you can and remember all those natural remedies that will help you. Hugs.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Hope you feel better soon. I just keep going to whatever degree. Migraines that would have had me in bed, in the dark, taking painkillers until I was unconscious now see me dragging about the house with sunglasses on, stopping to be sick as necessary, begging the children to breathe more quietly - unless my husband isscheduled to be home from work anyway, and then I can rest. But, somehow, hearing the chaos that can result from someone who cannot multitask, as he tries to run a home, educate children and stay calm, is not restful! I do have a heart of love for my friend who brought disposable nappies for our daughter when we all had noro virus and could not leave the house - but that apart we tend to just grit our teeth and get on. My parents recently took our two when I was very ill after oral surgery because the kids were scared to be alone with me and DH had to go to work, but it backfired when they came home. Being a mama is never easy, eh?
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Praying you both feel better soon - thank you for sharing such beautiful photographs.
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Hope you feel better soon. Your photos are stunning!
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Well... what do I do? I call my mum, and if she can take time off from work she comes over to help us. If she can't - my husband is taking time off... If it is absolutely impossible to get help I try not to leave the couch and very often the kids do understand and try to take care of themselves as much as possible.
I don't think you are a wimp. You need to take care of yourself! Hope, you find some rest, somehow. Get well soon!
Katharina
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
I just lower my standards. I don't clean and I don't cook much of anything and we just get by.

Also, I love that paisley snow suit!
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
I am so sorry you aren't feeling well. :( I hope this sickness passes quickly!
Your post photos are beautiful though!
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
Your children are so, SO cute and beautiful! What sweeties! :)
1 reply · active 637 weeks ago
So sweet! My girls and I have LOVED that book for years now and it has soothed us through many a sick spell. Love your blog.
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lemontreelane · 637 weeks ago

love love love all karma wilson/ jane chapman books...if you haven't read them all- try to!

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