Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Rhythm In Our Home : Deliberate Days of the Week


(apologizing in advance for these dark photos)

As you probably already know from previous posts , every day of the week has a corresponding activity in our home. We have come to really rely on the simplicity of this. It's been so helpful that I am actually in the process of devising a cleaning strategy/rhythm around our daily rhythms. Maybe that will get me into shape when it comes to housework!



A couple of posts back a great question was brought up by Laura about this. She asked,
" I was wondering how your daily theme works out? Do you have a set time for the painting/ craft/ baking in your day (I don't mean clock time but within your daily rhythm). Also what happens when the kids want to bake/ paint etc on days other than a day that is say painting day? Do you let that happen or guide them to wait for the appropriate day? Thanks a million x x "

Although I answered her question via the commenting system I thought I would address it in a post, as well, and go more deeply into our daily activities.
Our baking day (Monday) seems like a great place to start.



K is currently on summer break so the timing of our daily activity right now is different than during the school year. We pretty much had it down, doing our activity shortly after we picked K up from school each day. It took me quite awhile to figure out when the best time was in our summer days. After just stepping back and watching how our days naturally flowed (and when we were all at our happiest) for a couple of weeks I decided the best time for us would be after breakfast clean up. If for some reason we have something else scheduled during that time (for example: an appointment) then we just do our day's activity when we come back home.


K singing her bead baking song she learned at school (I wish I listened more carefully to the words so I could share it with you)

Doing it right after breakfast helps to make sure the activity gets done that day (instead of putting it off all day like I used to do and then some days it wouldn't happen- much to my little ones' disappointment). It's also good for us because baby L tends to take his first nap of the day then and we are all already together in the same room, so I don't have to interrupt play to get them to join me.



I try to already have what we are doing planned out (at least in my head), but I am always open to changes from my little ones. For example I may have decided on us baking bread but K really wants to make carob cupcakes. As long as we have the ingredients, and both girls are in agreement then we will switch over to what they want.

This brings me to the second part of Laura's question.
We bake a lot in our home - almost every day (I'm addicted to baking, I admit it, it's not hard for the girls to convince me to bake), so what makes our baking day different from the other days? I think it's the matter of how we go about our baking on that particular day. It's a very deliberate act with the girls in mind the whole time. This day and this recipe/project is for them. They have their hands as much in the project from start to finish as is possible (K more so than C only because her age makes her more capable to do so.)
This is the day of the week we like to try new recipes (Often times we skim through our Bob's Red Mill Baking Book and pick something) and new adventures. Some baking days we'll add on other fun kitchen projects like making homemade butter or whipped cream, to go with what we have baked.


K making butter

The other days of the week the girls may or may not be in the kitchen with me as I am baking. If they happen to be with me they will usually join in, but they tend to be off playing together most of the time. To answer the question simply, though, yes they do these same activities other days of the week but without any planning or as much emphasis on them.



Today we made some rosemary bread to go with our tomato soup dinner and inspired by Baby L's tolerance of goat milk, we ventured into a Home Creamery project.



We love spending the process of making something together but I do think their favorite part is eating what they created later on!



Please remember - this is just our family rhythm and what works for us at the moment. This isn't meant to be hard and fast rules on how rhythm should go in every one or any one's homes. I just thought to share it because I receive quite a few e-mails asking about our home rhythm, and I also just wanted it documented for me to remember when they are older and on to another rhythm.

Thank you, again, for joining me in the rhythm fun! Here is the linky list. If you have a (new or old) link you would like to share about your family rhythm, please enter it below so that we all may see. Then please link back here in your post. I look forward to seeing your inspiration!
Thanks friends!



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oh wonderful Nicole. thank you for such a beautiful answer to my questions :-) I am really thinking of introducing this sort of rhythm come sept and your post is so helpful. big hugs Laura x x
Thanks so much for this post, and the previous ones about rhythm, this is just what I need right now as we try to figure out how to bring a bit more harmony and 'flow' to our home when we move soon.
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Our rhythm really helped uswhen we moved cross country. I think it kept us sane!
I love your posts on rhythym, we so desperately need some in our life at the moment. the closest we have lately, is knowing my husband is at work for 28 days and home for 9...oh and bed time at 7:30pm lol other than that it's in shambles :(

I wonder if the song K was singing was this?

"We mix the dough, we knead the dough, we let it rise,
We punch the dough and pat the dough. It grows be-fore our eyes.
Hot, Brown loaf from a lit -tle ball, it ris-es up to feed us all"

It's from the book "Seven Times the Sun" by Shea Darian
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Oh goodness, I know it's not fun having your husband gone so much - it's similar with us :(
That wasn't the song, but I love it! I asked her again-I need to type it up.
Nicole what a beautiful post! The picture of K making butter is very sweet.
Could I ask where your table and chairs came from? Does it seat four? I would love a table and chair set like that in our home!
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Thanks! The table and chair set does sit four. It was a gift from my MIL. She got it from our local unfinished wood store in Virginia. We finished it with 'tried and true'.
I admire your dedication to rhythm. The best I can do is seasonal rhythms :) It's a start. I linked above to our "solution" to finding a rhythm to our days.
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
We all do what works best and what we can :)
I love baking day! Right now we're at an awkward time with my littlest. He wants to help but he brings a level of chaos I don't enjoy. He's 2. Often times I would wait until he was napping but now he doesn't nap much anymore. Or I would have one child help me. Michael, 6, wants to do it all and gets frustrated with the 2 year old banging away on the pots and pans, lol. Or stealing our bowl. Anyway, any tips? Thanks,

Becca
2 replies · active 709 weeks ago
That sounds VERY familiar! It can be the same way with my girls some days.We had to compromise and share the tasks (I know easier said than done) K getsa turn pouring in an ingredient, then C getsa turn, then back to K...
It works out nicely when we do bread b/c then the yeach get their own little loaf to roll out.
Was that much help?
Yes, it does help. Hard to navigate sometimes but it's true about bread. they can each have their own to knead. Plus this stage is brief. Maybe singing while baking might help us keep our heads. lol
Wise and wonderful as always, my dear. Hugs to you all!
K is wearing her skirt over her shoulders isn't she? Hee hee..

This seems like a good time to (finally) tell you what my surprise was the other day when we were on the phone... well, Chloe had lost a tooth that day and apparently they decided they should bake the tooth fairy a treat, which turned into a feast for all their people (dolls) and animals! So when I went out into the other room the table was covered with all kinds of little baked fairy-sized pastries, mostly just dough and jam baked into various shapes, and all the dolls and animals gathered around. I will have to send you a picture. It made me laugh so much, something about it seemed fitting since you and I had been talking about K's baking too. Somehow I hadn't thought much when I heard them so busy in the kitchen, thought they were just getting a snack and making some tea...
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Yes she is! :) She said it's her poncho.
Your surprise!!! Oh how funny. I think your girls and my girls would havea blast baking their concoctions together!
Hi, I found your blog a few days ago via Ravelry and it's absolutely delightful. After reading one post I quickly started to read it all from the beginning, your words and photos left me such a warm feeling.
Even though I'm not a mum (I think I'm still quite young for that!) it was very interesting to read a bit about a family's life through the Waldorf education. I'm very into it and I hope one day to apply the values and aspects in my own family, maybe even be a part of a small Waldorf community...
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Welcome Julia and thank you! Your words mean so much.You are so fortunate to already have an idea as to what you want for your children. I didn't know until 6 months after I had my first!
I have been wanting to start having a daily rhythm with my girls, so this was good to see an example of how it plays out. Do you have a recipe for rosemary bread that you can share? We usually make ours with white flour, but I have a feeling that isn't how you make yours.:
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Hi Marlo! Our recipe comes from the Bob's Red Mill Baking Book and you're right, it's made with whole wheat flour. It's really addicting.
I am really enjoying these rhythm posts. It is something we are working on now in our household. I am so glad I found your blog through the yarn alongs! Thank you!
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Thank you Amy and welcome!!
Thank you so much for sharing this one, Nicole,. It's something I was wondering as well. We struglle with finding our rhythm in our home so these posts are really wonderful and appreciated. :-)
You always have such beautiful photos of your activities indoors. I wonder if you've got a lot of light in your kitchen or are simply incredibly skilled with your camera? :) Thank you for hosting the rhythm sharing. Such wonderful insights and inspiration through glimpses into all kinds of families. I especially love to hear that everyone's rhythm at some point just falls apart :)
1 reply · active 709 weeks ago
Crazy harsh light in the kitchen and no light in the rest of the house :( I am still figuring out how to photograph here :) :)

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