Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Making a House a HOME



We have been in this house about a year and a half now and I am just now starting to make it a home.Yes, I am admitting to it, it's quite embarrassing, really. I envy those talented women who make a new house an inviting cozy home right when they first move in, seeing all the potential their new space has. That's just not me anymore, no matter how hard I try. I did it when Kevin and I first got married but since having little ones I just can't seem to concentrate on those kinds of things. It takes me a long time to figure out placement of furniture, wall color, how to fix things up and all those little details that make a place your own. Come to think of it, all the walls in this house are still the *cough* not so attractive *cough* colors the last owners painted them, except for the girls' bedroom that I lazured in that beautiful shade of peachy-pink. But that is more of a finance issue. We have the colors picked for each room but we just need to be able to buy the paint...and find the time to paint,too!



A while ago I mentioned that I was framing pictures and debating using some of my fabric stash to make curtains. This was all for our dining room - one of the hearts of our home. I hung up the pictures (we LOVE them) and I decided to go ahead and turn that fabric into curtains. I am happy I did. It's already making things much cozier in there, not to mention the fact that the whole neighborhood can't watch us eat now (always a plus, right?!) They go well with the colors in our kitchen, too (which were inspired by my favorite bowl and some produce - yeah, too much to explain in this post - that will come later). We are undecided about the wall color in the dining room but the curtains do go with it, if we decide to keep it.
I am, by far, no interior decorator, but I think I am getting by, enough.





K is even helping me make things more cheery by picking flowers to put in the dining room. These ones are on top of my favorite pieces of furniture I own, along with one of my favorite pictures of my Grandpa working in the Army Air Corps kitchen during WWII. I don't know what you call this piece but it has three shelves with chicken wire front doors and it's meant for storing potatoes, onions, etc. I found this baby for free on freecycle back in Virginia. I just needed to re sand it, beeswax it and replace the chicken wire. If only I could always be so lucky.

I mention quite often to my family how badly I want a different table. The one we have was kindly given to us, it is a good size for our growing family and serves it's purpose. All of that said, it's just not us. I dream of someday having an old farmhouse table, big enough to fit a possibly large family. I try not to focus on possessions but I have to admit, thoughts of this dream table make me giddy. But until this dream table somehow manifests itself into our home, we make do with what we have.



I think all of my whining dreaming has been a bit too influential on C, though. I left her and K in the dining room making cards this afternoon, just for a brief moment - mind you - to change Baby L's diaper, and came back to this. Does it remind you of anything... perhaps from about 2 years ago? Oh my silly C. K was never one to color anywhere but on paper but little Miss C has other ideas. The world is her canvas. I love her for it, but our furniture doesn't feel the same way I do. *sigh* Maybe that table will manifest itself now?



Oh and while I am at it, I feel the need to fully disclose my posting habits. You may have noticed my usual posting time has recently changed. I always used to wake up early and do my posts in the mornings before the little ones were awake. I tried to keep up with my east coast timing when we moved out here to the west coast but it just wasn't happening. I was scheduling the posts to appear around the time I used to actually do them but then I began to wonder - why am I doing this? It felt rather silly so I just decided I'll post when I can, whatever time that may be (since I only have the computer when Kevin is home from work - which is a very short window of time during the week). Ok, phew, I feel better getting that out there now.


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Love the fabric you chose for your curtains. I am inspired to do something similar now as well in my dining area. It's been needing some curtains too and we actually just moved in almost a year ago. I am very much like you. It takes me a long while to figure out where I want to put things and how I want to decorate it.
Beautiful space. I love the curtains! We have lots of crayon and marker marks on our table. I just need to re-sand ours!

Becca
I can totally identify with what you said.
I'm starting to make this house mine, and it's not only been almost a year, but for the first time is not a rental, which I think it's more reason. Thankfully the previous owners left all curtains and had it lovely, not my style, but I didn't expend a dime on paint, I will like to change it but have no idea how to choose colors, it's really silly, because I still fell sometimes as I'm in someonelse's house, and I don't want to ruin their style.
I'm still changing furniture too. Right now I'm in a rush to make it look kind of finished because my boy's birthday's party is on Sunday, and a few friends and family are coming over, and I think the excuse "I just move in" it's out of date already.
I love how you home looks, one of the things that make me return to your blog was the felling I get watching your dayly lives, all so simple, so meaningfull.
The curtains are gorgeous, that fabric it's beautiful.
I have been thinking on framing some pictures too, but I think I have to learn to do it myself, because it's really expensive (at least for me).
I'm very interested on waxing my own furniture finds, but have not found useful information on this, would you recommend anything (a site, a tutorial)?

Sorry for the mistakes, and the long comment.
Thanks for sharing.
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The curtains are so so beautiful, perfect I think. It takes me so so long to commit to cutting fabric for things such as curtains...
Exact same with Chloe and Chessa, Chloe would have never drawn on anything, Chessa definitely, though she won't admit it. Hmm, I wonder who write the little backwards J, R, and two C's on our front door? Oh no, of course not Chessa...
We had another haircutting incident too! And this time it was so much that I had to get the scissors to correct, Chessa now has bangs. Sure is cute though, I will have to show you a picture soon.
Congratulations to Kevin, I'm so glad the promotion worked out, I'm sure that feels so good to you all.
I loved seeing the muddy strawberry dresses the other day. You should see how dirty Chloe's pinafore got during it's very first days!
Yes, I'm catching up on lots of commenting here... Miss you. Love you. XOXOX
1 reply · active 715 weeks ago
Nicole...I really hear what you are saying about making your house a home. We have lived in this house since we renovated it four years ago, and I still have yet to put up things on our walls. I started to do a wall of favourite photos, but how do I pick just the right ones? I get overwhelmed and move on, so there the wall sits, with a few empty frames on it at the top of our stairs. Perhaps when we have trim around the windows and the walls are painted I'll get into that more...but wait, that might be another four years! Anyhow, I understand completely! I love the Elsa Beskow framed page and your curtains...a cheerful space indeed!
xo Jules
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Jaime Dodds · 716 weeks ago

We have been in our new home in WA, and I just did the whole decorate, put pictures up, make it look like a home in the past month when my family from VA visited for the first time... Before that I didn't have it in me, either. All dreams about some space that there isn't enough time or the right fabric or money or muster. I feel what you are saying. It is looking beautiful, though!!
The curtains are beautiful and so are the other glimpses to your home.
My family has been living in this "new" house for over a year now, and only now am I actually putting effort into really making it a home. It's a rental and we don't know how long we'll be here, so I'm hesitant to put too much into it that we can't take with us.

As far as your dining table goes, they're expensive to buy, but they're also easily made, and not nearly as costly. Have you seen Ana White's website? My husband and I have started building our own wooden furniture and it's been such a blessing for our family. We're furnishing our home with beautiful, handmade wooden furniture, piece by piece as we can afford the materials. A farmhouse table is one of the next items on our list, and they aren't difficult.

By the way, I love your curtains.
This looks like a very cosy home! You often mention that Kevin is working late and I wonder how your good night routine looks like with the two girls and the baby boy. With my two little ones- almost 3yo and 4 mo - it's hard to find a way to settle in a calm way if my husband is not at home.... I'd love to hear what works out for you.
Greetings from Austria!
1 reply · active 715 weeks ago
what a pretty and cozy HOME you have!
We have an old farm table that was given to us, and it badly needs stripping/sanding/refinishing. But what's great about it is that my kids paint at it and it is COVERED in craft and tempera paints...someday to be removed. Your dining room is so fresh and homey! Our kitchen hasn't been touched since we moved in 3 years ago, so don't fret...time with your kids and keeping your life stress free (or at least not creating unnecessary stuff in your already busy life!) is more important than creating THAT home RIGHT NOW. Our bedroom has patches of plaster here and there and is all different colours. I dream of it being an oasis right now but am too busy with other stuff these days! It'll come. You are lucky to have a dining room!! It's so pretty.
I love that days of the week print. I think you've done a lovely job with the dining room. It's definitely cozy. :)
A house has many incarnations over the years (it's funny to look back over the pictures of ours) and your home has always seemed lovely to me. I hope you feel completely settled very soon.
I like the pictures you shared, your home looks very welcoming. I think it's more natural for a home to evolve slowly over time. It feels more real to me that way.

I'm not a fan of our dining table either. I think I might try to paint it and cover the top with cement. If the husband is ever on board. I saw it on a blog once.
Over the years with several moves under my belt, I've learned that I need to feel a space in order to best make it a home. It usually takes about a year and right now I'm still not ready to dive in and decorate. The boys are now teens and my little ones are...well still little - what best creates a cozy home???
I love your curtains, love.them. That might be a good place to start for me too.
BTW, your home looks cozy and inviting throughout all your photos, a happy place for a child to thrive!
Your home looks just beautiful Nicole... we also dream of owning a farmstyle table to fit all of us better, but we haven't been blessed with one yet, someday perhaps. In the meantime with a table cloth and freshly picked flowers, ours will do just fine.

Your curtains are gorgeous.
Warm wishes for a beautiful day,
Tonya
okay...now you are inspiring me!! we've worked so hard on the outside of our house that the inside has been somewhat neglected. i love the anna horn curtains!! i need some money now to buy more of that fabric online. i made a dress for myself out of the beige version...i love the blue as curtains though..LOL and i feel the same way about our dining room table. it serves a purpose but is not what i want....someday! thanks for the inspiration my dear. you are very much one of those talented mamas that you talk about. i put you right up there with them!!! xoxoxox
1 reply · active 715 weeks ago
I can really identify with this post. We have lived in our home for 1 year and I am just getting some good ideas I want to implement.

I think your curtains are such a bright sweet addition. I love the picture of K peering out the window.
I also love the fabric that you chose for the curtains. Making a house a home takes so long. i always try to take on too much at one time and then it looks like it. It is nice that you are taking your time.
Such a beautiful dining room!!! I recently saw a table made out of an old door. Genius! Still, I can see your farmhouse table & will see if I can conjure up some magic that might make it manifest itself sooner ;-). I have a friend who calls our decorating style "eclectic" - with a shudder ;-). I sometimes wish I had one...quaker, moroccan, italian, zen, farmhouse. Then I think about all the time, money, and most importantly - energy - required and I abandon the idea. Cozy. That's what I shoot for every time. And it seems to do the trick. However, as permanent renters, I even find that hard to achieve sometimes. So, for the first time in my grown up life, I find myself wishing for a home...one that could be painted, embellished and admired. But, like you, I can never imagine it being a high priority...too much livin' and lovin' and readin' and knittin' to do! ;-) Hugs to you, gentle Mama.
Your curtains are so beautiful and your dining room looks so welcoming.
I can completely relate to this post. We've been living in our current home for nearly 3 years, and since our family has grown in that time, I'm actually glad I didn't act on some of the "great idea" I had when first moving in. They definitely would not have been as kid-friendly as my home needs to be. Plus, it seems the more time you spend in a space the more you're able to figure out how it needs to work for you (and that can be very different from one family to the next!). I do love, love you curtains though. They are beautiful
I love those curtains! The colors, the print... they certaintly do make things cheery.
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liebchenhut · 716 weeks ago

Well, within one year and a half you have done very well! I have been in my home for thirteen years and still do not have enough money for a sewing machine and every time I think about hand sewing curtains, I exhaust myself! Times have become increasing more difficult economic wise that I still haven't been able to decorate the way I want. Your table reminds me of my walls and other furniture...yes the world is a canvas! I keep hoping for a sewing machine so I can make dresses, curtains, etc. as you have for your daughters and home. Your pics and successes are a breath of fresh air. Thank you for taking the time to post :)
Lovely, Nicole! And I just love that cupboard!

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