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Saint Rita then brought us to the topic of nuns and Miss Marie said, " Oh I lived with a nun for many years in Italy." This piqued C's interest and she leaned in listening intently. Miss Marie saw C's interest and continued, "Oh yes, well during WWII I lost both of my parents and had to live in an orphanage for many years." Then she smiled her soothing smile and said, "That is why I love your knitting so much - it reminds me of knitting in the orphanage. We knit our own socks and sweaters all the time."
It took me a minute to find words to respond with. I was heartbroken over her childhood but she seemed to take it in stride. I also felt awful for a moment thinking about how my knitting reminded her of her life in an orphanage. But then I realized that it truly made her happy, not sad to see our hand knits. After we said our goodbyes (or Ciaos!) K and I both looked at each other and I think we shared the same sadness combined with love over what Miss Marie had gone through. I asked K what we should do because we both obviously felt the need to do something. We want to invite her to our home for dinners and really get to know her, but I wanted to do something more. Knit Miss Marie a shawl. YES! That is it. K and I could work on it together. Maybe even C could do a couple garter stitch rows. Then she could wrap herself in our love. That's seems like just the thing. But what do you think? I could really use your help here. Does a shawl sound like a good idea? Or would something else be better? Then what color and what pattern should we use? Something stylish (because Miss Marie is quite the stylish lady) but not too bold. Please do speak up and tell us what you think!

Becky · 512 weeks ago
aimee · 512 weeks ago
I'd choose a fairly unfussy pattern http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/marin is lovely and so is http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/antarktis - the Marin is my fav.
Genevieve · 512 weeks ago
Melonie K. · 512 weeks ago
There's also this one, which is actually named Marie's Shawl! http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/maries-sh...
rhondajean 9p · 512 weeks ago
It is a lovely thing you're doing. xx
jenlynheb 49p · 512 weeks ago
Dana · 512 weeks ago
Cheers,
Dana
T.a. Knight · 512 weeks ago
Frau Kirschkernzeit · 512 weeks ago
What I could see too were: fingerless gloves of the simple kind, without any fingers or shaping just those long, knitted tubes that fit every person and warm every hand and body in fall or spring or mild winters. This could be done in the round or evensimply done in rows and sewn together at the end to form the tube.
I like your blog so very much and am very impressed by your kindness and sensitivity. Please knit in some of my own good wished for that kind woman! It's good to have some of those angels around isn't it?
with love
Bora from Switzerland
Frau Kirschkernzeit · 512 weeks ago
Frau Kirschkernzeit · 512 weeks ago
Sigurlaug Elín · 512 weeks ago
waldorfmanufaktur 8p · 512 weeks ago
xx Simone
Sonia · 511 weeks ago
Nikki · 511 weeks ago
I really love that you foster such a sense of community in your children even though in past posts you've mentioned being shy and preferring to be at home. It's such an important thing and something that so many of us miss out on these days. It makes me happy to see children and families still enjoying that very important (and beneficial!) aspect of life. Your mothering really inspires me to be a better mama myself, so I'm very grateful you share here on your blog.
savourofsalt 33p · 511 weeks ago