Wednesday, June 10, 2015

For Miss Marie {asking for your help}

L's garden - runner beans garden fence climber more juvenile magpies juvenile magpies juvenile magpie Mama! egg basket Arctica l Nara sleeping in L's bed Nara Do you remember dear Miss Marie? The sweet lady who gifted my girls with butterfly hair clips? Well, I do believe she is truly an angel in disguise, perhaps even my guardian angel. It seems that whenever I am having a hard time she somehow knows and finds me. The love she has for life shines through her kind eyes and you just can not help but be calmed by her presence. I am so thankful for her.

The other week after Mass she found us (again at a time when I needed her). She admired the girls' knit rainbow dresses and mentioned that she wanted one. I told her I would knit for her any day. We spoke a bit more about knitting, as we usually do, and then somehow or other we were on the topic of C's favorite saint - Saint Rita. Oh, how I wish you could have heard Miss Marie repeat her name in Italian with her beautiful accent. Santa Rita de Cássia. Her name just rolled off her tongue so delicately.

Saint Rita then brought us to the topic of nuns and Miss Marie said, " Oh I lived with a nun for many years in Italy." This piqued C's interest and she leaned in listening intently. Miss Marie saw C's interest and continued, "Oh yes, well during WWII I lost both of my parents and had to live in an orphanage for many years." Then she smiled her soothing smile and said, "That is why I love your knitting so much - it reminds me of knitting in the orphanage. We knit our own socks and sweaters all the time."

It took me a minute to find words to respond with. I was heartbroken over her childhood but she seemed to take it in stride. I also felt awful for a moment thinking about how my knitting reminded her of her life in an orphanage. But then I realized that it truly made her happy, not sad to see our hand knits. After we said our goodbyes (or Ciaos!) K and I both looked at each other and I think we shared the same sadness combined with love over what Miss Marie had gone through. I asked K what we should do because we both obviously felt the need to do something. We want to invite her to our home for dinners and really get to know her, but I wanted to do something more. Knit Miss Marie a shawl. YES! That is it. K and I could work on it together. Maybe even C could do a couple garter stitch rows. Then she could wrap herself in our love. That's seems like just the thing. But what do you think? I could really use your help here. Does a shawl sound like a good idea? Or would something else be better? Then what color and what pattern should we use? Something stylish (because Miss Marie is quite the stylish lady) but not too bold. Please do speak up and tell us what you think!

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I LOVE the idea of knitting something for her. I think she would love whatever you gave her.
Given she loved the rainbow dresses I would do a shawl in delicate dusty rainbow colours - and perhaps some matching socks :-)
I'd choose a fairly unfussy pattern http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/marin is lovely and so is http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/antarktis - the Marin is my fav.
I think a shawl is perfect. Hansel (half version) by Gudrun Johnson is one of my favourites.
Miss Marie sounds just amazing. It sounds like she'd love anything you knit, but I bet she'd think of a shawl as a hug from your family every time she wrapped it around her shoulders. :) Have you considered one of the prayer shawl patterns? This one by Debbie Macomber looks like something that K could definitely help with, plus it's a free pattern and something classic where you could let the yarn do all the "talking". http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/knit-tria...

There's also this one, which is actually named Marie's Shawl! http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/maries-sh...
I think Miss Marie would love a shawl to wear. In winter, I wear one every day. I'm nearly 70 but I think Miss Marie might be a bit older than me. I knitted two organic cotton shawls for my every day use. They're lovely and soft and although they're warm around my neck, they're not prickly. I'd use a colour similar to those she wears.

It is a lovely thing you're doing. xx
The shawl sounds like a great idea :) From the way you speak of her I believe she would adore it. Definitely...trust your intuition on this one and go for it. Can't wait to see it!
Trust your instincts! A shawl sounds perfect.
Cheers,
Dana
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T.a. Knight · 512 weeks ago

Being from an old Italian Catholic family. A shaw is perfect. My old aunts always had one wrapped around them fall to spring for church. My MIL being Spanish not Italian also wears one concomitantly to church but to cover her head instead. I am very interested in her childhood story if you can get her to share it with you. We are loosing that generation so fast. I been trying to tape my own grandmother (92) and her stories from that error but she is shy. I have several videos I recently put on you tube for my family of him telling stories from that time as well. It is my most treasured thing. And how did she go from Italian orphanage to Idaho? I would have her over for dinner!
I rellay love it that you asked US to share our opinions. And I can only say YES, a shawl is just perfect! One of my readers someday commented under one of my triangle shawl posts that she was about to knit one for a very ill friend of hers who was having a rough time with chemo and so and I felt so terribly happy to see how she cared about that friend and how she really tried to show her love and concern. I think a triangle shawl might be just the perfect kind of shawl, because on one hand it is totally stylish (in my eyes for sure) and fits every woman in every age and every favourite look. And on the other hand there are enough simple rows for your girl to contribute (maybe you would have to start and end a row or to make the increases, but -especially at the- end rows are very, very long and there are always simple knit rows needed... I could imagine a shawl in a gorgeous handdyed black (Madelinetosh maybe?) or cream or any other colour you could see that lovely lady in.
What I could see too were: fingerless gloves of the simple kind, without any fingers or shaping just those long, knitted tubes that fit every person and warm every hand and body in fall or spring or mild winters. This could be done in the round or evensimply done in rows and sewn together at the end to form the tube.
I like your blog so very much and am very impressed by your kindness and sensitivity. Please knit in some of my own good wished for that kind woman! It's good to have some of those angels around isn't it?
with love
Bora from Switzerland
Oh yes, I forgot to mention: I used the pattern that was once featured in "Living Crafts". "Knitting a triangle shawl" was the name of that great article. Maybe you do remember? It is such a simple pattern, you know...
But hey; I now read the commments above and have to say: A prayer shawl might just be the very perfect project. YES!
Oh, this is a wonderful idea! I immediately thought of this one (http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/light-and-up) because it is so easy with plenty of stock.st. for the girls yet interesting and stylish with it's lace part and little tassels. Good luck, whatever you choose - this is such a wonderful way to show you care about your friend :)
What a nice gesture! Thinking of stylish... the cabinfour patterns come to my mind. Especially 'Pure'…
xx Simone
You could plant a "tea" garden for her. I see in your pictures your family likes to grow things, your husband could build a raised bed (so she can reach it easily). Then you could plant lemon, mint, spearmint and chamomile. Oh, and don't forget to have a tea party when everything is grown up! Then she will have the joy of caring for her garden all summer and sipping hot tea under her new shawl this winter!
I love the idea of a shawl that you could work on together. How beautiful would it be to not only wrap yourself in something someone lovingly made for you, but something that their children worked on too? A friend of mine wrote this shawl pattern.. http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/fog-a-sha... and I think it's just gorgeous.

I really love that you foster such a sense of community in your children even though in past posts you've mentioned being shy and preferring to be at home. It's such an important thing and something that so many of us miss out on these days. It makes me happy to see children and families still enjoying that very important (and beneficial!) aspect of life. Your mothering really inspires me to be a better mama myself, so I'm very grateful you share here on your blog.
She sounds such a lovely lady. I think a shawl is a fantastic idea, she can wrap herself up in it and feel your love for her. There are many lovely prayer shawl patterns out there, you could be thinking of her as you knit. x

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