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Where do I begin? Steiner quotes are always a great place to start. I came across this one recently and it really resonated with me:
On trappings
Many people believe that the materialism of our modern time arises because so many materialistic writings are read. The occultist, however, knows that this is only one of the lesser influences. What the eye sees is of far greater importance, for it has an influence on soul processes that more or less run their course in the unconscious. This is of eminently practical importance, and when spiritual science will one day really take hold of the soul, then will the practical effect become noticeable in public life. I have often called attention to the fact that it was something different from what it is today when one in the Middle Ages walked through the streets. Right and left there were house façades that were built up out of what the soul felt and thought. Every key, every lock, carried the imprint of him who had made it. Try to realize how the individual craftsman felt joy in each piece, how he worked his own soul into it. In every object there was a piece of soul, and when a person moved among such things, soul forces streamed over to him. Now compare this with a city today. Here is a shoe store, a hardware store, a butcher shop, then a tavern, etc. All this is alien to the inner soul processes; it is related only to the outer man. Thus, it generates those soul forces that tend towards materialism. These influences work much more strongly than do the dogmas of materialism. Add to these our horrible art of advertising. Old and young wander through a sea of such abominable products that wake the most evil forces of the soul. So likewise do our modern comic journals. This is not meant to be a fanatical agitation against these things, but only indications about facts. All this pours a stream of forces into the human soul, determining the epoch that leads the person in a certain direction. The spiritual scientist knows how much depends upon the world of forms in which a man lives.
Rudolf Steiner, Stuttgart, 14th September 1907
Oh the trappings. Kevin and I have fallen prey to many trappings leaving us nothing but debt and unhappiness. It's a bit embarrassing for me to admit it but it's the truth. I know I am not the only one and that many of us spend what we don't have. It has become such an American norm.
Kevin and I have been dealing with debt for a long time, pretty much as long as we have been married, and have tried fighting it off and on. But we were never fully in. Our debt has now grown and I think a portion of it is that I tried to buy myself happiness since we moved from Portland. I know, I know, big mistake. We had this vicious cycle going of falling short on money for groceries so we'd use a credit card to pay, just to get by until the next month but then the next month would come and it would be even worse because we would owe the money we used to pay for last month's groceries (with interest) and still need to somehow buy that month's groceries. This cycle just kept on going, getting worse and worse with each month.
But where was all of our money going?! We had been budgeting yet we still were blind to the obvious. A huge chunk of our money was going to credit card bills (and groceries, but I'll get to that later). Last December our eyes finally saw the truth and Kevin and I were finally ready to take this on. Being on the same page as your spouse really is key, I can see why we failed so many times before. We took action immediately and cut up our credit cards. No more! We watched some Dave Ramsey DVDs I picked up at the library and listened to his shows, thanks to quite a few of our friends recommending him to us. We felt we had the right tools to make this work and become debt free. I know it won't be a fast process nor will it be any easy one but we are committed to not give in and use credit cards again. AKA Cheetahs!
Of course this means I am now on a yarn diet (sigh) and we will have to be very careful with (as in pretty much not buying) any extracurricular spending including things like our homeschooling curriculum, art supplies, etc. But instead of allowing self-pity to set in, taking this on has inspired me to see just how little we can buy. Really I need a challenge to keep my head in the game (no more yarn!! Sob, sob). So I decided to do my own "No Spend Challenge." No spending on anything outside of my absolute necessities (such as food and rent). I thought I would document it for a year (maybe more) and check in each month to see how I am doing. Would any of you be interested in joining me? It's always great to have accountability partners.
I was hoping to write about how our budget is changing while still staying with healthy, organic food and share some recipes tonight but I think I may have already said quite enough! I will come back to that but in the meantime I have to mention a book I found back in December that inspired me to make the changes - Wildly Affordable Organic. I am so grateful I found it!
I will close with a very budget friendly cleaning solution recipe. One thing I learned from the aforementioned book is to waste nothing and use every last bit of anything you have. I had that in mind as I was juicing some grapefruit for a batch of my favorite tea a few weeks back (recipe found here).
We were just using vinegar to clean our home but I never could get past the smell. I remembered a friend back in Oregon making her own cleaning solution with just vinegar and citrus peels and it smelled great. Not to mention the citrus helps the vinegar become even more powerful for cutting through grease and grime.

All Purpose Citrus Vinegar Cleaner
You'll need:
A glass jar (we re-used a honey jar)
Citrus peels (orange. lemon, grapefruit, etc.)
White vinegar
A spray bottle (I just re-used an old Mrs. Meyers spray bottle)
Instructions:
Every time you eat or use citrus fruit, peel or cut the skin off and place it in your glass jar.
When your jar becomes full (takes about a week or less for our family), fill it with vinegar to the top, twist on the cap and let it sit for two weeks. I like to mark my jars with the date I closed them up so I know when they will be ready.
After the two weeks are up, remove the peels, (I put mine in the garbage disposal and they still had enough scent in the to make it smell nice) pour the solution into your spray bottle and dilute 1:1 with water.
That's it! Now go clean your home. We use it for cleaning everything around here and since we already have everything on hand or were going to buy it anyways, this ends up basically being free!

Melissa N · 533 weeks ago
Chrisi · 533 weeks ago
I just wanted to say hello and tell you "way to go"! I think it's awesome you guys are taking the bull by the horns! My husband has just gone through and looked at our money (& debt!) with a fine tooth come and had worked out a budget and a timeline (18 months of heavy duty living on this budget) until things loosen up. I'm grateful for the movement regarding this issue! A "no-spend" challenge sounds good. It didn't occur to me to make it a challenge. I think that would help!
I'm trying a cocnut yoghurt recipe tongiht if it works out I will let you know ($ 4 vs. $ 20!)
All the best to you and Godspeed!
Lauren · 533 weeks ago
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Fräulein Rucksack · 533 weeks ago
We are not in debt, but currently in a difficult financial situation. And instead of sobbing over it I embrace it as a really informative period in our lives. I always thought we were frugal. But now I discover so many traps. E.g. I was convinced I needed to buy woolen underwear for my girl this winter, and oh, kids are the last part where I'd retain money. But last minute I remembered I had old woolen sweaters lying around. And so I sewed. And now that girl of poor parents wears cashmere and the like! There are so so many traps and I think it really takes a long time to see them all. But it's so satisfying to go a different way. And the best: It's more sustainable! Not to mention the creativity and resourcefulness!
Can't wait to read more! And wish you the best with all!
Zena · 533 weeks ago
ncfarmchick 31p · 533 weeks ago
As far as craft supplies goes, my whole family (parents included) volunteer at our church's charity thrift shop. You would not believe the items that are donated which are perfect for your artistic endeavors. Wool sweaters to felt, beautiful yarn (donated from the yarn shop down the street), paper/cards/stationary, the list goes on. Perhaps you can find a similar source where you live. Though I echo the recommendation above to work with what you have. I try to do this yearly and use the items I have as the source of inspiration for what I make, rather than trying to find the supplies for a particular pattern. Kind of like eating what you have versus buying ingredients for a certain recipe. Best of luck and I look forward to reading about your progress. God Bless!
ncfarmchick 31p · 533 weeks ago
jenlynheb 49p · 533 weeks ago
On another note, one thing that helped me keep from spending throughout the month was to allow myself to purchase one item for myself at the end of the month. I was good all month, and then would get a treat...usually something I needed anyway like new work shoes or a sweater (but I always made sure I had money to cover it!). I agree with you 100% that we should not waste, but struggle with it hard under the influence of our throw away culture. This is something I'm hoping to move toward more in 2015. I look forward to hearing how it's going in the future.
Casey · 533 weeks ago
Also, one particular book I recently checked out at our library was "Zero Waste Home" by Bea Johnson. While I don't think our family will ever be at the level of zero waste that the author and her family are, she has some amazing tips including using natural ingredients for cleaning, etc.
justsimplymolly 42p · 533 weeks ago
Good luck, I'm right there with you!
Kate · 533 weeks ago
crazyestonian 1p · 533 weeks ago
Felicia's writing is lovely and it helps to look at what you already have with fresh eyes.
Having gone through quite a few years of no spending in the past I can say it is totally doable and I wish you good luck!
Jill · 533 weeks ago
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Erin · 533 weeks ago
We've been doing the Dave Ramsey plan for almost 10 years now and I absolutely love it! The secret is just consistently sticking with the plan and your budget, year in and year out! We're working on paying off our house now. It's hard work but so worth it!
Chrisi · 533 weeks ago
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Johanna · 533 weeks ago
My partner and I are constantly working on limiting our spending. It's a necessity (I don't earn much, and he is working on paying off his student loans), but it's also a lifestyle value for us. Ryan is constantly bringing up the different between being frugal (buying a few necessary things of high quality) and cheap (buying lots of inexpensive tat).
Unfortunately 3 solid months of celebrating (lots of October birthdays on both sides of the family, then we hosted gatherings for Thanksgiving and Christmas) has left our grocery budget in shambles. I'm working on getting us back on track though, by planning frugal meals (lots of lentils, simple cooked grains, cabbage, and root vegetables) and sticking to the list when grocery shopping. We try to avoid processed foods (even organic ones) so eating healthy is a bit of a time commitment (I make things like vegetable broth, yogurt, and all of our bread), but I really do feel it's worthwhile in the long run. Ryan needs to monitor his sodium intake, so knowing EXACTLY what's in our food is really important.
Joy · 533 weeks ago
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