








On an unrelated note, I finished reading Growing Up Duggar, and although it is geared more towards young women, I enjoyed it. I think it will help my girls in the future and I look forward to them reading it one day. I have since picked up Raising a Soul Surfer: One Family's Epic Tale, and can't put it down. I am half way through even though I just started it a couple of days ago (granted, it's only around 200 pages). Sadly, that's fast for me, at least since I had more than one child. Before then I would have finished a book like that in a day. Now I can only seem to find time to read at night and I usually fall asleep while trying to do so. To those of you that accomplish a lot of reading - how and when do you do it? I can't imagine trying to read during the day but maybe I need to try? I would love your input.
And on yet another note, a little story from my morning. My children and I were quite happy that we arrived early enough to Mass to join in the rosary. The only downfall to this was that it extended our time at church by about thirty minutes, and that equals an eternity in toddler time. Little L lost it when he couldn't get his money (that he had been saving for this day) out fast enough to put in the basket when it came around. We stepped outside for a few minutes to help him through it but he had had enough and just wanted to stay outside. I talked to a couple of people after Mass finished trying to make my introvert self come out of my shell but felt so silly. I really don't know how to make small talk, and end up stumbling over my words probably looking like a big mess. I hope I get over that someday. It's hard to make friends in new places when you can't talk!
We piled into the van and as I was backing out of our parking spot, another one of my children was complaining about something. I was just so distracted by that particular child, and thoughts of my inability to speak, that I thought I possibly hit the car behind me with my van, but I wasn't sure. Yeah, completely distracted, huh? It's sad when you don't know if you even did something or not! I got out and checked for damage. I didn't see anything so I thought maybe I was just imagining it but I couldn't shake the feeling that there was a possibility that I actually did hit the car. I stood there for a minute and thankfully the car's owner was just coming out of the church to leave. I explained my distraction to her, what I had thought happened, and that I honestly wasn't sure if I hit her car or not. She smiled and said she remembered those days with small children, told me not to worry about it and went back to her car. Then she shouted out, "Nice to meet you, by the way!"
I didn't catch her name, but I am so thankful for her example of understanding and kindness just when I needed it the most. I don't think that was merely a coincidence.

Anne · 562 weeks ago
I love the colour and the photos are gorgeous too!
Stacie · 562 weeks ago
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Sigurlaug Elín · 562 weeks ago
I am no help in the reading department, I never seem to find time for reading any more. I blame the all the knitting, in my case :) Audio books while running/knitting have been a help, though.
sallock 30p · 562 weeks ago
About that car incident, how sweet of that lady for showing her understanding. There should be a lot more people like her in the world :-)
lindsey toms · 562 weeks ago
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Flo · 562 weeks ago
I know it's easy to say "Don't feel that way!" about talking to people after Mass but it's true. The church (which I drive 20 miles out of the way to get too) my family attends emphasizes family and how those sitting there are our family and we are sitting down and having a meal together. We attend the children's liturgy BECAUSE I know toddlers have a time limit. I also attend because I want my children to feel accepted and loved in the church and no one to give me stink looks because of a melt down. So think of the folks as family, sometimes the family is weird, it might be a broken, but it is good!
Brienne · 562 weeks ago
Mari @piecesoffab · 562 weeks ago
What it comes to reading it is either cleaning, reading or knitting, and sometimes it happens that I regret the reading/knitting because the house is so messy... Also I have read much more after I bought a e-reader. It is so easy to take with you every where and you never have to worry about the bookmarks. Somehow it makes reading much easier.
ikkinlala 18p · 562 weeks ago
Anita · 562 weeks ago
By the way - you wrote some time ago about Oregon Trail. Both your pictures and thoughts about bringing history back to life with visiting it with children, where very inspiring for me. Such a beautiful place and such a romantic tale! I really love it.
Katherine · 562 weeks ago
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Cassidy · 562 weeks ago
I read a little here and a little there during the day. As someone else said in the comments - I want my children to see me reading. I have a nursing little one (almost 3 months old now) so I have some down time occasionally.
Some encouragement about the introversion and tongue tied talks - I'm the same way. For my children alone I try, and try, and try again. I feel so hopelessly awkward...but I've learned to just be okay with that. I tend to just want to stay in my shell and be left alone with my knitting, sewing, and family. I'm hoping that as my children grow - I'll be able to join some home school co-ops or something along those lines. We attend a mass that is an hour from our home. It's hard to convince people to come out to play when they all live near the church.
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