Sunday, June 22, 2014

A sweater for summer and a funny little story of gratitude

Gramps Gramps Gramps Gramps Gramps sleepy gramps all done Wooly Moss Roots buttons - perfection! Gramps w/ wooly moss roots buttons Well, not really for summer! We had a really windy day and on a whim I thought to try L's birthday sweater on him - it actually fits enough that he can wear it now. Obviously, pictures were in order (always have to try to get pictures before the handmade garment becomes very well loved. *ahem*) His cardigan is called The Gramps. I think the name is what got me to knit it in the first place. I love the look of it. I modified it a bit and my more detailed notes can be found on my rav page. The sleeves ended up a bit longer than I intended but that seems to happen to me whenever I knit things bottom up. Otherwise, the fit is good. Still a bit big but I do believe he will get at least one winter out of it. The yarn colorway is called happiness and it is dyed exclusively for Happy Knits back in Portland, OR. I think it may be my most favorite blue ever. It's so gorgeous in person. The buttons are from Wooly Moss Roots, also located back home in Oregon.

On an unrelated note, I finished reading Growing Up Duggar, and although it is geared more towards young women, I enjoyed it. I think it will help my girls in the future and I look forward to them reading it one day. I have since picked up Raising a Soul Surfer: One Family's Epic Tale, and can't put it down. I am half way through even though I just started it a couple of days ago (granted, it's only around 200 pages). Sadly, that's fast for me, at least since I had more than one child. Before then I would have finished a book like that in a day. Now I can only seem to find time to read at night and I usually fall asleep while trying to do so. To those of you that accomplish a lot of reading - how and when do you do it? I can't imagine trying to read during the day but maybe I need to try? I would love your input.

And on yet another note, a little story from my morning. My children and I were quite happy that we arrived early enough to Mass to join in the rosary. The only downfall to this was that it extended our time at church by about thirty minutes, and that equals an eternity in toddler time. Little L lost it when he couldn't get his money (that he had been saving for this day) out fast enough to put in the basket when it came around. We stepped outside for a few minutes to help him through it but he had had enough and just wanted to stay outside. I talked to a couple of people after Mass finished trying to make my introvert self come out of my shell but felt so silly. I really don't know how to make small talk, and end up stumbling over my words probably looking like a big mess. I hope I get over that someday. It's hard to make friends in new places when you can't talk!

We piled into the van and as I was backing out of our parking spot, another one of my children was complaining about something. I was just so distracted by that particular child, and thoughts of my inability to speak, that I thought I possibly hit the car behind me with my van, but I wasn't sure. Yeah, completely distracted, huh? It's sad when you don't know if you even did something or not! I got out and checked for damage. I didn't see anything so I thought maybe I was just imagining it but I couldn't shake the feeling that there was a possibility that I actually did hit the car. I stood there for a minute and thankfully the car's owner was just coming out of the church to leave. I explained my distraction to her, what I had thought happened, and that I honestly wasn't sure if I hit her car or not. She smiled and said she remembered those days with small children, told me not to worry about it and went back to her car. Then she shouted out, "Nice to meet you, by the way!"
I didn't catch her name, but I am so thankful for her example of understanding and kindness just when I needed it the most. I don't think that was merely a coincidence.

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Beautiful cardigan :)
I love the colour and the photos are gorgeous too!
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Thank you once again for sharing your knitting. As a grandma I love seeing the finished sweaters on your blog. They have inspired me so much that I have knit several of them, Henry's sweater, Sunday sweater, Phoebe sweater, Little House Shawl, Multnomah Shawl,and May Day Shawl to name some. I love your choices of colors and style, letting children look like children instead of small teenagers. thanks forsharing.
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Really beautiful Cardigan, and that story really relates to many Mums, we all have those moments and its nice to read another Mum having had the same moments... I too will be reading to see if any other readers find extra time to... well.. read? Im also very envious of your new Horsey Quilt!!
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
A little note about reading, try to pick up a book during the day now and then. It is important for your kids to see that you value reading. I used to save reading til my daughter was in bed (busy-busy days) and then one day I realized that she was not picking up books as often as she used to. Now we make time for reading during the day and I am happy to see that she doesn't think that reading is for bedtime only. Even settling down for 15 minutes to look through pictures of a craft book works if more complex reading seems too far out of reach. It is teaching by example :)
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
This sweater is just lovely and I agree on this tone of blue, it's amazing! Your knitting is an inspiration :)
I am no help in the reading department, I never seem to find time for reading any more. I blame the all the knitting, in my case :) Audio books while running/knitting have been a help, though.
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
That cardigan is lovely! It really suits your little son.
About that car incident, how sweet of that lady for showing her understanding. There should be a lot more people like her in the world :-)
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
That sweater, and the little boy wearing it, are very sweet. I used to find it very hard to chat with people whom I didn't know and church can be a tough place for 'chats' even though it shouldn't be. My husband is now a church pastor and as such I have had to make myself go and talk with people on a Sundays, especially visitors...I really don't find it easy but on a plus note it does become easier over time. I try to think of questions to ask and so in that way it means the other person has to do most of the talking and I get to know them too. That lady whose car you may or may not have hit is a perfect example and maybe God just orchestrated that 'maybe hit' in order for your visit to end on a positive note :)
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Such a gorgeous sweater and it looks so perfect on your ever so handsome little man! Oh, that yarn! Such a great colour! Thank you for sharing your story. Such a happy ending! I wish there were more people like that in the world… As for reading, I too find it difficult to do my own reading during the day. My big girls and I do read chapter books out loud together during nap time, before or after some school work. I take lots of pleasure in that, rediscovering some classics from my own childhood. I try to do a bit of my own adult reading in the early evening as soon as the kiddos are in bed, before knitting and not just before bed (or I would fall asleep right away).
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
I sneak in reading during potty and nap times. Also, it's my wind down at the end of the day.

I know it's easy to say "Don't feel that way!" about talking to people after Mass but it's true. The church (which I drive 20 miles out of the way to get too) my family attends emphasizes family and how those sitting there are our family and we are sitting down and having a meal together. We attend the children's liturgy BECAUSE I know toddlers have a time limit. I also attend because I want my children to feel accepted and loved in the church and no one to give me stink looks because of a melt down. So think of the folks as family, sometimes the family is weird, it might be a broken, but it is good!
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
That color blue is so beautiful. And the knitting is beautiful too, of course! Thank you for sharing that story about a kind community member. We need to spread that around a bit. Meeting new people is about number one on my list of things that frighten me and it gets worse as I get older:) Hang in there!
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
I'm so glad you shared that story! Next time when I can't figure out anything to say or stumble over my words at least I know I'm not alone:) You really paid the words of the nice lady forward by sharing this. Thank you!

What it comes to reading it is either cleaning, reading or knitting, and sometimes it happens that I regret the reading/knitting because the house is so messy... Also I have read much more after I bought a e-reader. It is so easy to take with you every where and you never have to worry about the bookmarks. Somehow it makes reading much easier.
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Adorable!
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
My name's Anita, I'm a mother of three children from Poland. I'm watching your beautiful photos and reading - if my little ones allow me, what you share for some time now. What you wrote about your inability to speak encouraged me to just say Hi! to you. I've the same problem :) I often go to a park and desperately need to talk to somebody, but fail. I start some chat, get stressed, say something silly or just I do it to fast to be understood and run away with a feeling that I made a fool of myself again. I try to make some exercises lately - in a shop or park or wherever I go, I start a small, not important conversation, just to reduce the stress connected with speaking. I believe it would work out one day. I understand you very well!
By the way - you wrote some time ago about Oregon Trail. Both your pictures and thoughts about bringing history back to life with visiting it with children, where very inspiring for me. Such a beautiful place and such a romantic tale! I really love it.
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
You are an amazing knitter, this sweater is gorgeous! I have 2 almost 3 sons and you make me want to attempt this pattern. The color choice looks perfect on your little one! Thanks for the inspiration :)
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Such a gorgeous cardigan and I love the yarn you've used to make it. Fabulous project
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
I love his cardigan!

I read a little here and a little there during the day. As someone else said in the comments - I want my children to see me reading. I have a nursing little one (almost 3 months old now) so I have some down time occasionally.

Some encouragement about the introversion and tongue tied talks - I'm the same way. For my children alone I try, and try, and try again. I feel so hopelessly awkward...but I've learned to just be okay with that. I tend to just want to stay in my shell and be left alone with my knitting, sewing, and family. I'm hoping that as my children grow - I'll be able to join some home school co-ops or something along those lines. We attend a mass that is an hour from our home. It's hard to convince people to come out to play when they all live near the church.
1 reply · active 561 weeks ago
Just followed your link from the Orthodoxy forum on Ravelry. I had to laugh when you asked how other mothers get any reading done; I was looking at all those gorgeous cables and thinking "when does a mother find time to focus on THAT?!?" :-) My poor brain; I hope it recovers some day! I do lots of plain knitting ('though, not since the last baby came, yet) and lots of not-in-depth reading. I miss my ability to focus on something besides preventing the current disaster!
Your son is precious! Beautiful job.

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