







That is until this summer! Boy, these past few days have been quite toasty. We keep finding out cats sprawled out all over our hardwood floors trying to keep cool. They'll get up, walk a few steps and then flop right back down. Our dogs are even too hot to chase them. I guess we are all feeling a bit sluggish at the moment. We've been keeping cool with endless smoothies and running in the sprinkler. We have been trying to get out of the house as much as possible, too, and took the little ones to an inflatable tiger slide they had been begging to go to. K went down quite a few times and even Little L wanted to do it (with big sister's help). He loved it, to my surprise. He's such a fearless, crazy, lovable boy. C, on the other hand, was a bit too intimidated by the whole thing. She did end up going down once in the end, though.
Speaking of my crazy boy, I would love to seek some wisdom from all of you on a topic dealing with him...night weaning. Shhhhh, I am whispering so he doesn't find out I am even thinking about this. I did child-led weaning with both of the girls and never had any issues. I expected to do the same with Little L but he nurses so differently then they did. The truth is, I haven't slept well in months, the dark circles under my eyes confirm it. I feel like my parenting is being affected as my patience has been running thin. He has been having a hard time sleeping and nurses all night long. Even though he is snuggled up next to me in bed (which I love), I just can't sleep. Plus, my milk supply has pretty much dwindled away, which makes nursing a tad bit uncomfortable. I decided it would be best for us both to go ahead and night wean...now what?! Kevin will be home more this week so we are hoping to have him put Little L to bed and then I will (try to) sleep with the girls. If that works what do I do after that? I always nurse him down to sleep. Will I have to move him out of our bed? I am not quite ready to give up the baby snuggles just yet. As you can see the whole concept of weaning is foreign to me. Any words of advice and even just prayers for us as we try to figure this all out would be so greatly appreciated!
Here's what Little L has to say about all of this weaning talk:


Sarah · 618 weeks ago
Anyway, I will be reading with interest your other comments to see how others handle this.
melanierouthier 8p · 618 weeks ago
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Amanda · 618 weeks ago
I'm in kind of the same position now, though. My 19 month old was doing great sleeping through most of the night (even all at times) in her own bed in the room she shares with my 4 year old. Suddenly she started waking up early in the night again (10ish), coming to our bed, and nursing all. night. long. Across my face. <sigh> I have no problem with her sleeping with us. I have no problem with her nursing. But the WHOLE night while sleeping across my face is really getting old. And tiring. Last night she made it until 2 in the morning, so when I heard her yelling "MOM," I opted to go to her bed rather than bring her to ours (hoping that will aid in the night weaning). 2 hours later I was able to very carefully sneak out of her bed. I'm pretty sure she was back in ours by 4:30 and was not pleased when I told her she couldn't nurse. I was just all nursed out. You know? Plus it's been so hot here and we don't use our a/c at night. So once again, baby across face while nursing (and pinching, because... why not?!) is just not pleasant.
Good luck! It can be so tricky to find a happy medium. :/ I hope something works very soon!!!
eidolons · 618 weeks ago
Best of luck!
Andrea · 618 weeks ago
jess · 618 weeks ago
I went out of town for 3 days and even though I pumped while I was away my milk production is less.
The problem at our house is that A isn't that interested in solid food if it's not straight up meat.
We don't eat meat for every meal, and she'll pick at anything else.
I have no words of wisdom, just commiseration.
Rebecca · 618 weeks ago
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Emily · 618 weeks ago
I never felt right about handing the baby over to Papa to cry because it felt like I was withholding the breast and my comfort.
anajoe 22p · 618 weeks ago
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Nadja · 618 weeks ago
I keep the thermostat set at 80 degrees, and with the humidity, it gets pretty unpleasant in here before the AC kicks on. Thank goodness we have ceiling fans. I seem to have a recollection of placing a block of ice (frozen in a Tupperware container) in front of a fan to cool the air once in Tucson, AZ, when the humidity was too high for the evaporative cooler to give relief...
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~ joey ~ · 618 weeks ago
I'm sorry I can't offer any advice on night weaning as neither of my kids woke for night feeds after a few months old. I'm not sure why but they were hungry feeders during the day! With my son was only 10 months old my milk dried up so I know how terribly painful (physically and emotionally) it is to not have enough milk to feed your hungry child. I tried everything but he literally milked me dry! ;o)
I hope that this turns into a smooth transition for you and your worries disappear.
xoxo
~ joey ~
Joy · 617 weeks ago
I pray you're able to get some restful sleep soon--I know how hard it can be when you're sleep-deprived.
Love,
Joy
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