Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Quarantined


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We spent a good chunk of Little L's birthday week under a bit of a self-imposed quarantine. K had the chickenpox. It's been going around school so I had a feeling it would be coming our way. I admit it was somewhat welcome. I mean as welcome as something like this can be.  I was just looking forward to getting past this particular rite of childhood so that we didn't have to worry about it in the future.

We are thankful that K had a  mild case and was her usual self minus some itchiness here and there. Oat baths and neem oil really seemed to help. I believe I was older than she is when I got them but I had an easy case, too. In fact the only thing I remember about it is that I gave them to my brother (who is about nine years older than me) and he had a pretty rough time. I mentioned my experience to K and every time she wanted to itch a spot I told her to give her uncle a call and he would  tell her why she shouldn't itch them. That little rascal never called him, though.

Now I am just waiting for C and Little L's chickenpox to appear. It's inevitable. I was told they appear in two weeks after the initial case just like clockwork. We are soon to find out! I pray that they have as mild of a case as K did.

p.s - Somehow a picture of K's latest knitting project just seemed absolutely appropriate for this post (that very loved horse is from The Puppenstube). And those tiny flowers you see above? Those are our first sign that spring is near! Little L and I spotted them outside our window the other day. There was much rejoicing!

p.p.s - I really contemplated posting this but in the end I decided go with it and stay true to myself.  I am always open and honest (but also vulnerable!) in this space of mine and to skip over this particular event in our lives just wouldn't feel right. On that note, I do ask that we please refrain from any possible vaccination debates. They would only bring us the exact opposite of love and encouragement. Thank you for understanding!

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I wish we could come over and have a chicken pox party!!! None of my children have had it!! Yes, I agree, this should be shared and you will remember it with the little details now that you have put it in your blog : ) Hugs and non-itchy thoughts coming your way!!
1 reply · active 631 weeks ago
Well wishes to you and hope your littles get a mild case too. By the way, I love the little knitted duck - too cute!
Both my children had it mildly with a week of each other, so maybe you will not have to wait so long. We found aloe vera stopped the itchiness here. I am surmising by your last sentence that it is possible to be vaccinated for chicken pox where you live, not so in the UK at the moment but I am sure it will be introduced some time.
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Aww I feel for you guys. I hope the others get a mild case too. One of my boys was only 2 weeks old when he caught chicken pox (from big brother and sister! who had it VERY bad). He thankfully only had a mild case. I remember the thing that seemed to soothe the itches the most for them was a luke warm bath with LOTS of oats. I didn't even bother putting them in a stocking, just plopped them in like I was cooking up a big pot of porridge. The little chicken is so sweet, and love that you're excited about the first signs of spring while I am getting a thrill over the first glimpses of autumn :)
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
My younger too had the pox over Halloween a few years ago. Their older brother never got it. I am still hoping he does. We all do what we believe is best for our family. Sometimes it looks different from one to the other.
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Good wishes to your littles for a mild case and a quick recover. Once again your words are so inspiring, thank you for sharing.
(Loving that knitted chicken by the way!)
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Daphne is my favorite flower. Spring is coming for sure.
I have never had chicken pox and was exposed to it from 6 months of age until now (aged 27) and still hope to get it before having little ones to care for. I hope C&L will only have mild cases too and remain their usual self with only a tiny bit of itchiness. I love your blog and love your way of life and how you provide such a peaceful upbringing for your children. Never feel pressurised into doing or contemplating what others think but which you know doesn't feel right for your family because as a mum you will always know what is best for you, your partner and your three darlings! You are doing the right thing and will continue to do so because nobody loves like a mother does (this comes from my mum)! Lots of love from Germany, Bianca
P:S: if you ever need to get a book translated from German into English I would love to do so)
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I bet it'll be easier for your little ones. I've heard that the younger the child is, that generally the easier their chicken pox cases are. My oldest two had chicken pox when we still lived and worked at the orphanage in Guatemala. A new little boy came to live there and he brought chicken pox with him... we had more than 20 kids down with it within a month! (and in my experience that toddlers were the least affected by it, a few spots and almost no fever...) I was pregnant with baby number 3 at the time. My youngest three have never had it, and now the oldest of that group is almost 10! I really wish we could find someone around here who had it to "share" before he gets much bigger. I hope you and your home are peace-filled and content, sick babies are never easy, but they really need us then!
Glad to hear her case was mild. I have no idea if my chicken pox were bad or not - to me they were the end of the world. The world from a kid's perspective is an interesting thing to remember. (:

Thank you so much for the kind words on my recent blog post! I have to admit to you, my knitting only looks lovely because I can't bring myself to photograph and share the unfortunate ones! (:
I had them when I was 6 and it was a terrible case. They were EVERYWHERE, including under my eye lids. I gave them to my sister, who is also 9 years older. She had them even worse. Not so nice for a 15 year old!!!
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I had them at age 16 and they were horrible!! None of my kids have had them yet, so at this point, I don't know if I want them to or not, especially the teens! Hope all is well with you and yours.
We're in a self-imposed kind of quarantine, too. Not because we're sick, but because we don't want to get sick. RSV has been running rampant around here and I have a 3 week old newborn. So...we haven't been going anywhere but the grocery store. I must admit I'm getting a little stir-crazy. I hope your children have an easy time with the chicken pox. The younger you have them, the easier they are. Good luck!
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I remember getting them when I was 3 and we were in the middle of moving! I dont know why but my mom purposely exposed me at a chicken pock party right before we moved! I dont think she thought I would be so ichy but I remember itching in the hotel, itching at my grandmas itching at the hospital to visit my aunt? I dont know why, and having them start to disappear as I spent the first night in our new house in NJ. As a mom now I have no earthly idea why she chose that moment. Moving is a big task and so is a sick kid!
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
I'm glad K's case was mild. We just had chickenpox go through our house just before Christmas and I was thrilled for the lifelong immunity. It ended up being a logistical hassle with the schools calling and the Health Dept calling but it was worth it. My younger two that got it were nearly 8 and 5. We also had mild cases. Nothing that a few juice pops and movie and popcorn time couldn't fix. We even avoided the fever completely. I hope the next two cases are just as mild while still providing lifelong immunity. Might as well get it out of the way now. Best of luck to you and the children.
I got the chicken pox from a Children's hospital - I was around and 6 and although they tried to send as many patients home who were able - I still got them. I was in a cast from my armpits to my ankles! There were not many places open to scratch. My girls got the chicken pox when they were younger but both ds's have not - they are now 10 and 13 and we seem to be running out of time for a mild childhood case. Hope yours all have mild cases but strong enough to give them natural immunity!
I second (third & fourth, etc...) what everyone has said above. Wishing everyone in your house a mild case and easy recovery! Bravo for doing (or not doing) what you feel is right regarding vaccination and for standing up against judgement. I feel this should be a personal choice beyond judgement (gosh, I hope that previous statement does not qualify as a debate -- it was intended to be an anti-debate statement!! My kids ARE vaccinated, so there. ha!)

xo
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Calendula helps take the itch away - nearly completely!
Hope you are all recovered and ready for spring when it hits! Hugs coming your way.
sending you thoughts of love & healing.....
Thankfully I had them when I was 6 months old- I heard it was a really bad case- in my mouth and scalp and all over the body. Glad I don't remember it! My mom chose not to vaccinate us for that because she said at the time it was too new and she didn't feel right about it. (this was in 1982) I have chosen to vaccinate, but we delay it for as long as possible. I've never seen the chicken pox on anyone except my dad- he broke out in shingles one summer and it was terrible for him!
I wish we could drive down from Seattle to get exposed from your kiddos! I would love mine to get a natural immunity!
I had them at 19 - It was awful! I did vax my kids, but would pox party them too. My mom also had her's very late and very badly, they told her she might pass her immunities to us, and so it seemed for years, despite pox partying us too. Better to get it over when they are young, one way or another. Hope you are all back to normal soon.
It makes me sad that you felt you needed to add the bit about a debate on vaccinations-mommy wars, blah! I hope there is only a mild case of the pox for your littles and I wish you all a speedy recovery with lots of convalesce and quiet moments.
1 reply · active 630 weeks ago
Love your blog Nicole. You bring about such peace and contentment in your posts!
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