Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Knitting Through Tears

Preparing for Saint Nicholas day!



Here we are, already at this week's Phoebe Sweater KAL and yarn along update. I have nothing to say on my Phoebe's sweater for C. No, that's not true. I have a lot to say but I am still just too bummed out about the whole thing to go in to it, so here's a recap:

I was nearly finished with C's sweater (just had to do one sleeve and the hood) and it appeared to be small looking rather small. I did check my gauge this time around but something still went wrong. Fearing the worst I brought her into the bathroom so no one else could see and told her to close her eyes. I then tried the sweater on her. The length was perfect but I severely underestimated the size of sweet C's Buddha belly. It was barely able to wrap around her.

I tried my hardest not to cry but it was hitting me hard, all my work and no margin for error on this Christmas gift making timeline... Ughhh! I tried to devise a plan where I wouldn't have to rip out the whole sweater. I came close but couldn't find a way to avoid it entirely. So I sat and shed a few tears while I ripped out the entire upper body, just until I got to the decreasing section, then I stopped. I should have taken a picture of the many little balls of yarn I had from ripping it out. It was such a sad sight. I picked up the stitches on one side of the bottom half of the sweater and knit 3 rows in seed stitch then cast off. I did the same to the other side of the bottom half of the sweater. This added 6 stitches of width to the entire sweater. I then changed my needles from size 10 to size 10 1/2 and followed the decrease instructions but this time for the size 6 sweater instead of the size 4. Now I am knitting the entire upper body in size 6 with the bigger needles. It looks much bigger, now lets just hope it's not too big! I do want it to be a bit big and loose, though, so she can wear many layers underneath it.

This mistake of mine set me back big time, so now I am not sure what I will finish up in time for Christmas. The plan was just the Phoebe sweaters and the doll versions for the girls along with a patchwork quilt for their bed. Not sure about working on that quilt now. I am thinking if all else fails, I may have to drop making Baby L's gift and give it to him later. He has gifts coming from our families so I doubt he'll notice...



I was still sulking a bit when I took these pictures today. As you can see I choose to focus on our cute little Scandinavian Christmas angel chimes instead of my actual project. Ahem.

I suppose I better get back to work on that sweater!
What are you working on? I hope you are having better luck than me! Happy creating!!


P.S - Blogger wouldn't let me upload pictures tonight so I had a lot of hoops to jump through to figure it out. Thanks to my dear (birthday girl) friend Marina I think I have it set now.

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I feel your pain, Nicole. The first not-kid sweater that I ever knit, was unraveled this past weekend. I overestimated the size I would need while knitting it (I know that I'm big, but I always seem to mentally add a couple dozen pounds). It looked funny to begin with and didn't fit well. I knew that I would never wear it. So now it's in hanks outside (drying, because I redyed it). I managed not to cry, though I did wallow a bit. I'm wishing you speedy knitting and much happiness.
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
Oh my sweet Nicole! You will get it all done and it will all be so beautiful. Me on the other hand have not been able to get very far on the Phoebe....I seriously need to find a place that I can take some knitting classes. Or, you teach me to knit and I will teach you to crochet : )
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
For the neck- try this tutorial.Oh dear- I feel your pain! I am so sorry for the loss of your hard work! I hope it works out well now! The project looks very cute though and I love the angel :)
Oh that is crazy- it just added that first part for no reason- AND it tried it again when I made this reply- no tutorial to see here!
Yikes, I posted the wrong link so now I posted the right link and now there are two links for me : ( Sorry!
Oh no, I am so sorry. I am having similar worries over a raglan I finished this week for my oldest son. I fear it is too small or will fit like a second skin. My husband assures me that it will be fine and not worry until Christmas. It just stinks.
Oh how heartbreaking!!! :(
It reminds me of three pairs of socks I knitted for my girls last year. It took them a week to puncture several undarnable holes in them! I cried more than a few tears, they were my first ever socks too :(
It will be all worth it in the end, it is a beautiful pattern. The yarn is such a beautiful colour!
Your Saint Nicolas day preperations look so pretty!
Oh no, that sounds awful :( So sorry to hear about all the ripping out. How frustrating. Really hope it flies by quickly now, to make it up to you!
Oh what a shame, seems to be the thing just now, must be all the christmas rushing. I just switched needles an eighth into a cowl because I realised it was a bit too farm. Who wants a stiff neckwarmer??? Hopefully it will remain unnoticeable as I haven't the time for starting over. I think we all forget that this should be a fun time too and lay too much pressure on ourselves to be perfect, don't you?
Good luck with the rest of the knitting.
xx
Oh, how frustrating. It is so hard to rip out that many stitches. Do you celebrate any days of the 12 after Christmas? Maybe the sweaters could be a gift for little Christmas on Epiphany/Twelfth Night.
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
Oh, that's sad.
My garndmother had an angel chime like that when I was little :)
Oh dear Nicole, the only one you are disappointing is yourself. Your kids don't need things on a predetermined holiday dates except for love and light and togetherness and warmth. As for gifts for baby L or any of the children, may I direct you here http://www.wired.com/geekdad/2011/01/the-5-best-t...

Zach's first Christmas we gave him a helium filled balloon and an empty box. Seriously, that was it. The photos from that Christmas are the ones with the widest smile ever!. A happy mama is the best gift you can give any of them.
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
I'm so sorry, Nicole! I have the same problem with Gemma, who also has such a little pot-belly that I have to usually knit a sweater for the next size up and then just make adjustments for sleeve and body length. I hope you have stopped beating yourself up! And I must agree with boatbaby2 above--little ones don't need much! A few blocks, a tin up for him to bang about...he won't feel slighted.
I did the same thing this week with a romper for my baby! Many tears were shed! I'm still not sure how I will get everything done...why does Christmas have to fall on the same time as exams? I need to learn to knit and study at the same time!

Good luck!! :)
Hi Nicole, I actually don't think YOU made the mistake. I've got no work done on Ella's sweater either for the very same reason. I made the largest size which should have fit nicely. I checked my gauge like always and it's too small. It doesn't measure out to the size the pattern says it should. I even checked the actual gauge of the sweater and it's perfect. The sweater fits Ella EXACTLY so long as she doesn't grow 1/8" more. I don't know if I will finish the sweater or rip it out and make something else. With the cost of the yarn I want a sweater that will fit for more than a few weeks. I think it's a great pattern, you just have to know to go up a size than it says.

Paula
That has happened to me once before, except that I didn't have the foresight to try it on my son. Instead, I had a completed sweater that didn't fit. You are more determined than I. It was the last sweater I ever knit for him. I have knit plenty of smaller things since, but never a sweater.
Oh dear! I'm so sorry about your set back. :( That's so frustrating. I hope it goes smoother from here on!
Oh I am so sorry!! Frogging is so depressing. It will be lovely though and even more special because of the extra love worked into it.
Deep breath, mama, those knitting things can certainly turn sour fast, can't they? My dp always reminds me to set aside my knitting when I start talking to it (like only fractions of centimeters away from using some choice words). At first that annoyed me (just let me work it out and leave me alone!!) but now I welcome it. After a little bit of room knitting mistakes don't seem as life altering! :)

I lve the angel chimes, beautiful! And the yarn you chose for C's sweater looks so soft and snuggly. I chose beaverslide in fisherman's weight and it's SO heavy (which I wanted but sometimes seems a bit too stiff and heavy, you nkow?) and not very soft at all. I hope my K still likes it. She's been on a bit of a knitwear strike lately. :(
That sounds so frustrating! Hang in there. At least you discovered the sizing issue before you finished or before you gave it to your daughter. Now she'll have plenty of room to grow which means you can watch her wear it that much longer.
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Becc Boland · 696 weeks ago

Oh Nicole! Readiing your blog brings me soooo much inspiration and joy, I feel so sad that you had something disappointing happen xxx I live with the notion that challenges are like an obstacle course wall...sometimes we just have to take a longer run off to get over them (or sometimes even look for a way to sneak around them heehee). The work you do is beautiful. I truly wish for you an enjoyable lead up to Christmas Day. Be well xxxx
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
Oh no! Ripping! So sad. My mom had one of those angel chimes when I was growing up. I would love to find one for myself someday.
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
Oh I hear you! Happened to me before... ah well.... I bet you get it done in time anyway!
Try not to be too hard on yourself. I understand your tears though. I have cried over less effort. Good luck to you! I am sure it will all work out in the end.
Oh how heartbreaking! It is almost impossible for me to knit a hat or other head accoutrement that fits...so I fear sweaters mightily! Hugs to you as you knit through the tears. xoxo

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