Monday, November 28, 2011

Growing

Happy first Sunday of Advent! My head is spinning from all that we did today. Oh my sweet K, I am forever in your debt for all that you bring into my life. More on that tomorrow, though :)









We had the entire week off of school for parent/teacher conferences and Thanksgiving, but before that break began, C and I stopped by our school's annual shield benefit. I had to see my friend's shield in person (the knitted one in the first photograph), as well as check out all the other beauties. C and I both fell in love with the one in the third photograph down. The talent in our school community is unsurpassable.



Kevin came to the realization that if our children and I are to make it through the winter, I need to learn how to chop wood. It's getting cold here now (either I have acclimated to the climate here after spending four way too hot and humid years in Virginia, or this fall/winter is just warmer than the last couple of years), and since our heater can't get the temperature in our home past 59 degrees, we need a constant fire going.

Our cord of wood arrived a couple of weeks ago but it is all in big pieces that need to be split. Kevin isn't home enough to chop it himself, and when he is home it's when the children are sleeping so, of course, he can't cut it then.
He reminded me of my desire to be like the frontier women before me, and how they (may have) had to cut their own wood. Yes, yes, I hear that. This is a skill I want to have, and I understand how important it is but ughhh - I have no muscles whatsoever and my 'to do' list is already so long to begin with. No amount of whining or complaining can get me out of this one, though, so I stood by to watch and learn from the master. (with a baby on his back, even!)





He informed me that in order to cut the wood, I had to become one with the wood and showed me the 'miyagi focus'...







Which slightly frightened the girls who were outside in their nightgowns playing. Don't get me started on them out in the mud wearing their nightgowns, rules fall to the wayside when Daddy is home - not by my choice!



I got the hang of it enough to make kindling at least but that took me hours. Hey, maybe I'll get some muscles after all. Boy, do I have a long lesson ahead of me. Kevin joked that I have to 'wear the pants in the family' while he's working so much. See? I did. They may be my running pants but they are pants!







We enjoyed our Thanksgiving dinner on our crowded coffee table in front of the fire. (dining room is much too cold to use now) Someone else joined us at the table...















Baby L!!! We let him play with a quarter of a plain baked acorn squash and he loved it. I normally like to wait until closer to a year in age to start solid food but this little guy was determined to eat much sooner than that. Both of the girls weren't all that into eating solids but Baby L just can't get enough. I wish you could watch him and listen to his cute little excited noises he makes when he sees the spoon coming his way. His little legs kick in anticipation and his hands clap like crazy. Cutest thing ever. I realize these pictures look a bit gross with him having squash up his nose and all over himself (not to mention the indoor lighting) but I still couldn't help myself. His first top tooth came in this weekend, to boot! A lot of growing going on in our home lately, inner growth, too.





We even enjoyed some family drawing time over the week, much to K's delight. It has been months since our last session. Yep, this week was pretty full.

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Nicole what a beautiful post and as you say so very full. Wonderful warmth and feeling in it though. The nighties in the mud tickled me, Rebe is also a massive nighties fan and her clothing of choice.I love seeing little L growing so much and the squash pictures are fab! Thank for sharing x
1 reply · active 695 weeks ago
You'll get the hang of chopping wood. I've been doing it for years. The trick to getting through a really stubborn knot in the wood is to scream like a wildwoman. The trick to splitting kindling is to get a hatchet.

Also, your blog is beautiful and I love it completely.
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Our lives and families are so very different yet popping by your blog gives me a sense of being home....I so enjoy your posts and they give me a sense of grounding that I need some days, reminding me to step of the roundabout for a few hours a day
Nicky
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It looks like a wonderful week full of Thanksgiving! I don't envy you the wood chopping, but I'm sure it will come easier with time. :) Please tell your friend that the knitted shield is lovely.
My guess is that when you follow a baby's natural rhythm and raise them without mama milk substitutes that eating solids at around year is pretty normal. Zach and Naia both had no interest in even tasting anything until 12 months. And now they are both good eaters! Naia went from nothing but mama's milks to yes I wanna try everything in 2 seconds flat. We joke she is so stinkin' independent that she refused to eat until she could do it completely by herself. So good for baby L! He looks like he is having a grand time exploring food. This is when I wish we still had our belived dog - to pick up after all that mess!
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Good luck with the wood splitting! I just had to split this morning for our fire and I now love the activity of getting things warm for my boys. It does get easier and you will get better at identifying which pieces are better to split. How fabulous for baby L to take part in your thanksgiving feast.
I hear you about the wood chores. If I want a fire in the wood stove, I have to do most of them here, too. It does get easier with time. You'll figure it out. It helps to hit that wood with confidence and firmness the first time.

Both my kids really wanted to join us with solid foods pretty early. I figured if they were interested, they could have some of the veggies we had. If they are hungry enough to want it, I should listen to them. It made the nursing a bunch easier, too, as they were growing and crawling and toddling around so much and they really needed some good calories.
Love your husbands face while teaching you the art of wood splitting : ) He looks like a funny Poppa. I love the pictures of Lucian enjoying his messy Thanksgiving treat. I hope you had a wonderful time with your family and congratulations on learning yet another self sustaining chore.
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I absolutely love the shields at the top of your post. What talent! Do you know if there is a source to buy the blank shield, or does somebody in your community make them for the school? One of my sons would absolutely love to make his own I am sure.
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Adorable post!! I love the pictures of Kevin with the baby chopping wood! I was splitting wood when I was ten years old, so don't worry. You can do it, girl! : )
Looks like a perfect Thanksgiving holiday! Camille adores family art time. Some nights we tell her, we may have to skip reading her chapter story to fit it in and she is just fine with that. I love it too, don't you love seeing Daddy create with the littles? Beautiful photos Nicole. :-)
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i'm Not sure if anyone else has mentioned this but it is much easier if you have a wedge and a sledge hammer (your sized of course). I am not a large person and I have done it this way before as long as you can get the wedge in which you can just hammer in like a nail you can split the wood with a few big blows. Hope that helps you o your way to becoming one with the wood, lol.
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Funny. Love how you have to be the person with the pants in your home. Me too, by the way. I would love to learn how to chop wood. Unfortunately, we don't have a wood-stove.
Sweet pictures of the girls in nightgowns. Have you thought about renting a wood splitter and doing your entire cord of wood in one day? You can rent a splitter for $40 and then split it, stack it and it will be ready for you all winter long.
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I'm laughing so hard at Kevin's woodchopping demo! We're not letting our heat go above 60 this winter either, so we're going to have lots of fires, too. Our 1/2 cord won't make it to St. Lucia Day...must locate more soon. Perhaps we'll need to drop in at your place - there will be loads of wood ready soon ;-). Those shields are completely amazing! I wish I could bid on one.... I'm talking holiday traditions over at my place. Would love to have you and your beautiful family along :-)
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Nicole...There is so much in this post...nighties ~ I am about to begin making one for my 3 yr old girl for the holidays. I loved nighties as a girl and I've surprised myself that she hasn't worn one yet. The wood thing...I'm sorry, I have to say, I love love love chopping wood. I really do! I have been chopping for more than 15 years as a cookstove is our primary heat source. My husband had done most of this work for the past several years when I have been cozying up pregnant or nursing wee wee ones. Now, I get out there with the children during the day and make kindling to my heart's content. I have found that the type of wood makes ALL the difference, and knotted wood is definately more challenging. Good luck on honing your homesteading skills ~ wonderful and practical tools for your children! And you also enjoy the fire all the more:)
xo Jules
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What a beautiful post. You can feel the love and warmth shining through. I can almost be there. The photo's of Baby L eating the squash are delightful. I envy you having the fire - we had an open fire and a pot bellied stove at our house we moved from just under a year ago. Now we have a disconnected Aga and central heating!
Love, love, love your blog---would you share more at some point about family drawing time? Is there a "family" book, or does everyone have their own and draw together? Happy holidays, and thanks!
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I love the pictures of the girls in their nightgowns outside. Country kids at heart!! We heat with wood, but I will not chop wood! You are doing better than I am at that.
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